Kad\u0131nlar \u015fiddeti de\u011fil sevilmeyi hak ediyor.<\/p>\n
Son g\u00fcnlerin insan\u0131 en \u00e7ok huzursuz eden konusu elbette \u201ckad\u0131na \u015fiddet\u201d. Bilhassa da i\u015flenen cinayetler, e\u015fi taraf\u0131ndan sokak ortas\u0131nda hatta cami avlusunda d\u00f6v\u00fclen kad\u0131nlar\u2026<\/p>\n
Ve en korkunc olan\u0131, cinsel istismara maruz kalan gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar\u2026<\/p>\n
Toplum nas\u0131l bu hale geldi diye sormadan edemiyoruz kendimize. \u015eizofrenlik, g\u00f6z\u00fc d\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015fl\u00fck, \u015fiddet e\u011filimi bir yana i\u015fin bir de ahlaki \u00e7\u00f6k\u00fcnt\u00fc boyutu var.<\/p>\n
Bir kad\u0131ndan do\u011fan erkek, hunharca bir bayana tecav\u00fcz edip ac\u0131madan \u00f6ld\u00fcrebiliyor.<\/p>\n
Bir k\u0131z karde\u015fe sahip olan adam, yine g\u00f6z\u00fc d\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015fcesine kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcyor, k\u0131z karde\u015fini pi\u015fkince aray\u0131p ablan yan\u0131nda m\u0131 diye sorabiliyor.<\/p>\n
Yeti\u015ftiren anneye bak\u0131yoruz kad\u0131n su\u00e7 babas\u0131nda, o da bana s\u00fcrekli dayak atard\u0131 diyor. Babas\u0131na bak\u0131yoruz o\u011flunun i\u015fledi\u011fi cinayeti kamufle ediyor.<\/p>\n
Evet diyoruz, o zaman su\u00e7un bir k\u0131sm\u0131 da yeti\u015ftiren ailede. K\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131za etti\u011fimiz nasihatlardan erkek evlatlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 mahrum edemeyiz. Erkektir ona bir \u015fey olmaz diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnemeyiz. Dinimiz k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funa haram k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyleri erkek \u00e7ocu\u011funa helal k\u0131lm\u0131yor.<\/p>\n
\u201cHay\u0131r k\u0131z\u0131m senin erkek arkada\u015f\u0131n olamaz\u201d derken o\u011fluna, \u201cerkek adam\u0131n k\u0131z arkada\u015f\u0131 da olur, sevgilisi de\u201d dersek yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131kla o\u011flumuzun da bir k\u0131z karde\u015fe sahip oldu\u011funu unutturmu\u015f oluruz. Ahlak \u00e7\u00f6k\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fc dedik, her zulm\u00fc yapt\u0131rabilir. Vicdan\u0131 k\u00f6reltir verdi\u011fi zarardan rahats\u0131z olmaz. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcrmez \u201cya o benim bir yak\u0131n\u0131m olsayd\u0131?\u201d diye. Duydu\u011fu \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar yakar\u0131\u015flar t\u0131rmalamaz kulaklar\u0131n\u0131. Merhamet d\u00fcrtmez y\u00fcre\u011fini \u201c sen ne yap\u0131yorsun\u201d diye.<\/p>\n
L\u00fctfen ama l\u00fctfen bilin\u00e7li olal\u0131m, hassas olal\u0131m \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, gen\u00e7lerimizi e\u011fitirken. \u0130leti\u015fime a\u00e7\u0131k olal\u0131m onlarla. Varsa zaaflar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulal\u0131m, uzmana dan\u0131\u015fal\u0131m. Bir insan\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyin, \u00fclkeyi nas\u0131l yasa bo\u011fdu\u011funu hepimiz g\u00f6rd\u00fck. Demekki sadece ate\u015f d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yeri de\u011fil milyonlar\u0131 yakabiliyor.<\/p>\n
Bizler Sevgililer Sevgilisinin (sav) \u00fcmmetiysek e\u011fer; onun bize buyurdu\u011fu gibi onlar\u0131 birer emanet bilmeliyiz. Erkeklerin onlar\u0131n \u00fczerinde nas\u0131l hakk\u0131 varsa kad\u0131nlar\u0131n da onlar \u00fczerinde hakk\u0131n\u0131n bulundu\u011funu unutmamal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n
Ve yine Peygamberimiz (sav) der ki: \u2018Kad\u0131nlara yedi\u011finizden yedirin, giydi\u011finizden giydirin, onlara vurmay\u0131n ve onlar\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fclemeyin\u2019\u2026<\/p>\n
Bu ahlakla ya\u015fay\u0131p, evlatlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da bu ahlakla yeti\u015ftirmek duas\u0131yla\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Kad\u0131nlar \u015fiddeti de\u011fil sevilmeyi hak ediyor. Son g\u00fcnlerin insan\u0131 en \u00e7ok huzursuz eden konusu elbette \u201ckad\u0131na \u015fiddet\u201d. Bilhassa da i\u015flenen...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1476,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[27,47,72],"class_list":["post-1475","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","tag-aile-danismanligi","tag-evlilik-danismanligi","tag-kadinlarin-hak-ettigi-sey-sevgidir"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1475","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1475"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1475\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1475"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1475"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1475"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}