{"id":1698,"date":"2016-06-23T11:29:58","date_gmt":"2016-06-23T08:29:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=1698"},"modified":"2016-06-23T11:29:58","modified_gmt":"2016-06-23T08:29:58","slug":"sevgisi-kordugum-gibi-esi-goz-bebegi-idi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/1698\/sevgisi-kordugum-gibi-esi-goz-bebegi-idi\/","title":{"rendered":"Sevgisi k\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm gibi, E\u015fi g\u00f6z bebe\u011fi idi"},"content":{"rendered":"

E\u015fine olan sevgisini \u2018k\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u2019 olarak anlatan, ona \u2018g\u00f6z bebe\u011fim\u2019 diyen bir Peygamberimiz (sav) var. O d\u00fcnyay\u0131 te\u015frif eden en m\u00fckemmel insan ve peygamberdi ama ayn\u0131 zamanda bir e\u015fti.<\/p>\n

Hz. Muhammed Mustafa (sav), peygamberli\u011finin ilk s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131 ona, yani kad\u0131na a\u00e7t\u0131. \u0130lk vahyin habercisi oldu. \u0130lk kelime-i \u015fehadeti getirerek M\u00fcsl\u00fcman olan bir kad\u0131nd\u0131. \u0130lk namaz\u0131 peygamberin arkas\u0131nda bir kad\u0131n k\u0131ld\u0131. Ve en \u00f6nemlisi Allah\u2019\u0131n selam g\u00f6nderdi\u011fi ve Resul\u2019\u00fcn \u00fcmmeti olan o kad\u0131n Hz. Hatice\u2019ydi.<\/p>\n

Art\u0131k kad\u0131n\u0131n di\u015fili\u011fi geri plana itilmi\u015f, ki\u015fili\u011fiyle \u00f6n pl\u00e2na \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Onun bir ad\u0131 vard\u0131.<\/p>\n

Kur\u2019an-\u0131 Kerim\u2019de sadece \u2018ey erkekler\u2019 denmiyor. \u2018M\u00fcmin kad\u0131nlar ve m\u00fc\u2019min erkekler\u2019 denilerek kad\u0131n da erkekle e\u015fit muamele g\u00f6r\u00fcyordu. Kad\u0131n arka planda kalm\u0131yor. Erkekle yan yana oluyordu.<\/p>\n

\u201cCennet annelerin ayaklar\u0131 alt\u0131na seriliyordu. Kad\u0131n, Allah\u2019\u0131n kulu ve muhatab\u0131 Resulullah\u2019\u0131n \u00fcmmeti, erke\u011finin kad\u0131n\u0131yd\u0131. O adla \u015feref bulmu\u015ftu. Art\u0131k o adla an\u0131l\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n

KADINA \u015e\u0130DDETE SON VERD\u0130<\/strong><\/p>\n

Resulullah (sav) kad\u0131na \u00f6yle bir ad getirmi\u015fti ki, \u201c\u0130ki \u015feye dikkat edin. Biri yetim hakk\u0131 di\u011feri kad\u0131n hakk\u0131.\u201d diyordu. Sadece bununla kalmay\u0131p g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz kad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131n bile en muzdarip oldu\u011fu \u015fiddeti yasakl\u0131yor. Kad\u0131n\u0131n bask\u0131 alt\u0131nda ezilmesine kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor ve \u201c\u0130nsanlar\u0131n en k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fc ehli \u00fczerinde bask\u0131 yapand\u0131r.\u201d diyordu.<\/p>\n

Kad\u0131nlara kar\u015f\u0131 o kadar nazik ve kibard\u0131 ki, e\u015fine \u015fiddetli konu\u015fmam\u0131\u015f, onlar\u0131 incitmemi\u015f, onlar\u0131n haklar\u0131n\u0131 en ince detaylar\u0131na kadar g\u00f6zetmi\u015fti. \u00d6yle ki, \u00e7ok iyi yemek yapan kom\u015fusu bir g\u00fcn onu yeme\u011fe davet etti.<\/p>\n

Peygamberimiz (sav), \u201cHz Ai\u015fe de davetli mi?\u201d diye sordu. \u2018Hay\u0131r\u2019 cevab\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131nca yeme\u011fe gitmedi. Kom\u015fu ikinci g\u00fcn\u00fc \u201cHz Ai\u015fe\u2019yi davet ediyoruz.\u201d dedi\u011finde ancak o zaman davete icabet etti.<\/p>\n

Bir peygamber d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn ki, \u2018Veda Hutbesi\u2019nde kad\u0131nlara iyi muamele edilmesini istiyor. Bir peygamber d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn ki; \u00f6l\u00fcm an\u0131nda kad\u0131nlara haklar\u0131na g\u00f6zeterek davran\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 tavsiye ediyor. Yeri geldi\u011finde ke\u00e7i sa\u011f\u0131yor, ayakkab\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 tamir ediyor. Yeri geldi\u011finde e\u015flerinin s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131na tebess\u00fcmle \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler buluyor.<\/p>\n

E\u015e\u0130N\u0130N ELLER\u0130NDEN TUTARDI<\/strong><\/p>\n

Peygamberli\u011fin verdi\u011fi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 an\u0131nda e\u015finin ellerinden tutarak ondan yard\u0131m istiyor; \u201cYa Ai\u015fe konu\u015f, g\u00f6nl\u00fcm\u00fcz a\u00e7\u0131ls\u0131n.\u201d Ai\u015fe konu\u015furdu. Onun g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn ve g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fcn huzura ermesi i\u00e7in konu\u015furdu. O mutlulu\u011fu, derdi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131y\u0131 payla\u015fmay\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131nda aramaz, e\u015finde, evinde ve yuvas\u0131nda arard\u0131.<\/p>\n

ANNEND\u0130R, ANNEND\u0130R!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kad\u0131na o kadar de\u011fer veriyordu ki, bir g\u00fcn bir adam gelerek Peygamberimiz\u2019e sordu: \u201cG\u00fczel dostluk ve muhabbet beslememe insanlar aras\u0131nda en l\u00e2y\u0131k olan kimdir? Peygamberimiz:
\n\u201cAnnendir.\u201d
\nYa sonraki?\u201d
\n\u201cAnnendir.\u201d
\nSon olarak kimdir:
\n\u201cAnnendir.\u201d dedi. Ve son soru \u00fczerine \u201cbaband\u0131r\u201d cevab\u0131n\u0131 verdi.<\/p>\n

\u2018Beni seviyor musun?\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n

Peygamberimiz (sav)\u00a0Hz. Ai\u015fe\u2019ye
\n\u201cg\u00f6z bebe\u011fim\u201d diyordu.
\nKad\u0131n\u0131n bir ad\u0131 da g\u00f6z bebe\u011fi olmu\u015ftu.
\nPeygamberimiz\u2019le yeni evlenmi\u015flerdi.
\nHz. Peygamberimiz\u2019e sormu\u015ftu:
\n\u201cAllah\u2019\u0131n Resul\u00fc beni seviyor musun?\u201d
\n\u201cEvet ya Ai\u015fe, seviyorum.\u201d
\n\u201dBeni nas\u0131l seviyorsun?\u201d
\n\u201cK\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm gibi.\u201d
\nAradan zaman ge\u00e7ti,
\nHz. Ai\u015fe Peygamberimiz\u2019e sordu.
\n\u201cK\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm ne halde?\u201d
\nPeygamberimiz cevaplad\u0131:
\n\u201c\u0130lk g\u00fcnk\u00fc gibi\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

E\u015fine olan sevgisini \u2018k\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u2019 olarak anlatan, ona \u2018g\u00f6z bebe\u011fim\u2019 diyen bir Peygamberimiz (sav) var. O d\u00fcnyay\u0131 te\u015frif eden en m\u00fckemmel...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1699,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[27,82,83,84],"class_list":["post-1698","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","tag-aile-danismanligi","tag-esi-goz-bebegi-idi","tag-peygamberimizin-aile-iletisimi","tag-sevgisi-kordugum-gibi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1698","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1698"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1698\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1698"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1698"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1698"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}