Evlilikte ka\u00e7amak yapanlar \u00e7ok \u015feylerini kaybedebilirler: En ba\u015fta e\u015fini \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 kendine sayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 sayg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belki i\u015fini ve kariyerini hatta hayatlar\u0131n\u0131…<\/p>\n
Evlilikte mutlu olmak i\u00e7in en \u00f6nde gelen unsur, g\u00fcven ve sadakattir. E\u015fi aldatma \u00f6yle \u00e7\u0131kmaz bir yoldur ki bo\u015fanman\u0131n ba\u015fta gelen sebebi ve gerek\u00e7esidir. Buna ra\u011fmen Bat\u0131 \u00fclkelerinde s\u0131k rastlan\u0131r. Maalesef \u00fclkemizde de gerek medyan\u0131n ve \u00f6zellikle televizyondaki pembe dizilerin etkisiyle, gerekse ailelerdeki \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclme y\u00fcz\u00fcnden daha s\u0131k rastlanmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Sadakatsizlik, yapan\u0131 ve e\u015fini oldu\u011fu kadar belki ba\u015fka bir e\u015fi veya \u00e7ifti de olumsuz etkiler. \u00c7ocuklar peri\u015fan olabilir. Menfi tesiri anne baba ile akrabalara bile yay\u0131labilir.<\/p>\n
Esas zarar\u0131 ise yapan g\u00f6r\u00fcr. \u0130\u015f verimi d\u00fc\u015fer, huzuru kalmaz. Hovardal\u0131k eden taraf d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc kaybeder ve i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e kendisinin yalanc\u0131, s\u00f6z\u00fcne g\u00fcvenilmez ve vicdans\u0131z oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flar. \u0130li\u015fkisi s\u00fcrekli olursa insafs\u0131z ve vicdans\u0131z\u0131n biri olup \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n
Ka\u00e7amak yapanlar \u00e7ok \u015feyi kaybedebilirler. En ba\u015fta e\u015fini, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131, yuvas\u0131n\u0131, huzurunu, kendine sayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131, sayg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, belki i\u015fini ve kariyerini, hatta hayatlar\u0131n\u0131… Birka\u00e7 dakikal\u0131k bir zevk i\u00e7in her \u015feyi riske atm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r.i\u00e7in Aldatma?<\/p>\n
\u00c7\u0131kmaz yol olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen insanlar ni\u00e7in e\u015flerini aldat\u0131rlar? Cevab\u0131 k\u0131sa hazlar ya\u015famak i\u00e7indir. Haz, mutluluktan farkl\u0131d\u0131r. Haz ge\u00e7icidir, mutluluk ise uzun s\u00fcrelidir. Hazz\u0131n i\u00e7inde nefsilik vard\u0131r. Psikiyatrik tabirle altego ile hissedilir. Mutlulukta ise devaml\u0131 bir memnuniyet hali, ho\u015fnutluk duygusu b\u00fct\u00fcn benli\u011fe hakimdir. Mutluluk, daha derinden ya\u015fan\u0131r ve kal\u0131c\u0131 bir duygudur. Mutlu ki\u015fi huzurludur, kendisiyle bar\u0131\u015f\u0131kt\u0131r.Kimle Aldat\u0131r?<\/p>\n
Yap\u0131lan istatistikler aldatan ki\u015finin \u00e7o\u011funlukla yak\u0131n \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma \u00e7evresinden biriyle e\u015fini aldatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6stermektedir.u Kim?<\/p>\n
Evlili\u011fin sorumlulu\u011fu iki taraf\u00e7a payla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. Bu y\u00fczden su\u00e7u tek tarafa y\u0131kmak do\u011fru olmaz. Kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 sevgisizlik, ihmal ve vakit ay\u0131rmamak gibi bir\u00e7ok fakt\u00f6r i\u015fe kar\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Kocas\u0131n\u0131 aldatan bir\u00e7ok kad\u0131n\u0131n derdini, \u0131zd\u0131rab\u0131n\u0131 dinledim. G\u00f6rd\u00fcm ki genellikle ruhen ve hissen doyumsuz kad\u0131nlard\u0131r. Fiziksel, duygusal ve ruhsal a\u00e7\u0131dan tatmin olan bir han\u0131m e\u015fini aldatmaz. Hatta b\u00f6yle bir ihaneti i\u00e7inden bile ge\u00e7irmez. E\u015fini de mutlu eder, ona doyum sa\u011flar.Ne Yap\u0131lmal\u0131?<\/p>\n
\u2022 Evlilik, kad\u0131n ve erkek iki ferdin b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden olu\u015fur. Bu b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fck her y\u00f6n\u00fc kapsar. Bu y\u00fczden sevgi ileti\u015fimini iyi kurmak gerekir. Kar\u015f\u0131 tarafla ilgilenmeli, problemlerine ortak olmal\u0131, onu mutlu etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u2022 \u0130\u015fyerinde makyajl\u0131, parf\u00fcml\u00fc, g\u00fcler y\u00fczl\u00fc kad\u0131nlarla \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan erkeklerin han\u0131mlar\u0131 g\u00fcler y\u00fcz ve yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 e\u015flerine g\u00f6stermeli ve onlara kap\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7melidirler. Ak\u015fam eve geldiklerinde g\u00fcler y\u00fczle, \u00f6zenle giyinmi\u015f olarak onu kar\u015f\u0131layan kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce erke\u011fin i\u00e7i mutlulukla dolacak, her g\u00fcn bir an \u00f6nce eve gelmek i\u00e7in can atacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u2022 Erke\u011fin han\u0131m\u0131na vakit ay\u0131rmas\u0131 \u015fartt\u0131r. Eve elden geldi\u011fince erken gelmeli, hafta sonlar\u0131n\u0131 mutlaka e\u015fiyle ge\u00e7irmeye gayret etmelidir.<\/p>\n
\u2022 E\u015fler bilmelidirler ki ba\u015fkas\u0131nda cazip gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnen \u00f6zellikler, kendi e\u015flerinde de vard\u0131r. Hatta e\u015finin bir\u00e7ok \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fckleri de mevcuttur. Yeter ki arada iyi ileti\u015fim kurulsun, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 sevgi ve sayg\u0131 muhafaza edilsin.<\/p>\n
Yine kar\u0131 ve koca, e\u015flerini ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla k\u0131yas etmemelidirler. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her \u015feyin \u00f6zelli\u011fi farkl\u0131d\u0131r. Kendi e\u015flerinin \u00fcst\u00fcn ve g\u00fczel yanlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcp, bununla mutlu olmaya ve ailelerini mutlu etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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