{"id":2227,"date":"2016-07-19T23:54:08","date_gmt":"2016-07-19T20:54:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=2227"},"modified":"2016-07-19T23:54:08","modified_gmt":"2016-07-19T20:54:08","slug":"peygamberimiz-esleri-ile-nasil-sakalasirdi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/2227\/peygamberimiz-esleri-ile-nasil-sakalasirdi\/","title":{"rendered":"Peygamberimiz E\u015fleri \u0130le Nas\u0131l \u015eakala\u015f\u0131rd\u0131?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Peygamberimiz Nas\u0131l \u015eaka Yapard\u0131?<\/h2>\n

Siyer, en geni\u015f anlam\u0131 ile Peygamber Efendimiz (sav)\u2019in hayat\u0131n\u0131n tamam\u0131d\u0131r. H\u00e2l b\u00f6yle olunca yaln\u0131z \u00f6nemli dini meseleler de\u011fil, g\u00fcndelik hayat\u0131n k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck denecek meseleleri de vard\u0131r Siyer\u2019de.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mesela Peygamberimiz (sav)\u2019in hayat\u0131na bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda; hem \u00f6rnek bir insan hem peygamber olarak; \u00a0ashab\u0131yla, e\u015fleri ve torunlar\u0131yla \u015fakala\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, s\u0131k s\u0131k tebess\u00fcm etti\u011fini ve ettirdi\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz.<\/p>\n

\u00d6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fc ve yerinde oldu\u011fu m\u00fcddet\u00e7e \u015faka yapmay\u0131 Hz. Muhammed (sav)\u2019inde tasvip etti\u011fini Siyer kitaplar\u0131ndan okuyoruz. \u00a0Hz. Muhammed (sav) tebess\u00fcm etmeyi ve nezaketle \u015faka yapmay\u0131 severdi. Hatta;<\/p>\n

\u201cBen sadece do\u011fruyu konu\u015furum, haktan ba\u015fka bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemem\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

buyurarak \u015fakay\u0131 d\u00e2hi ciddiye ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz.<\/p>\n

<\/h3>\n

E\u015fleri ve Torunlar\u0131 ile \u015eakala\u015f\u0131rd\u0131<\/h3>\n

Hz. Peygamber ashab\u0131 ile \u015fakala\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi, e\u015fleriyle, sokakta oynayan \u00e7ocuklarla ve ihtiyar kad\u0131nlarla da \u015fakala\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. Ailedeki sevgi ve muhabbeti art\u0131rmak i\u00e7in her h\u00e2l ve davran\u0131\u015fta bulunur ve e\u015flerin birbirleriyle \u015fakala\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n kalbe sevin\u00e7 ve ferahl\u0131k verdi\u011fini s\u00f6ylerdi.<\/strong>
\nHz. Enes de, Allah Ras\u00fbl\u00fc (sav)\u2019n\u00fcn han\u0131mlar\u0131yla beraber oldu\u011fu zaman insanlar\u0131n en ho\u015fu ve en \u015fakac\u0131s\u0131 oldu\u011funu aktar\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Hz. Ai\u015fe rivayet edildi\u011fine g\u00f6re: \u201cBir g\u00fcn Allah\u2019\u0131n Ras\u00fbl\u00fc benimle ko\u015farak yar\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ve ben kendisini ge\u00e7tim. Zamanla \u015fi\u015fmanlad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda benimle tekrar ko\u015ftu ve bu sefer beni o ge\u00e7ti.\u201d<\/p>\n

Yine Hz. Ai\u015fe ve Hz. Sevde validelerimiz aras\u0131nda ge\u00e7en bir hadisede de Peygamberimiz (sav)\u2019in \u015fakaya i\u015ftirak etti\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz.
\nBir g\u00fcn Hazret-i Ai\u015fe (ra), bulama\u00e7 pi\u015firmi\u015fti. Efendimiz, sofraya e\u015flerinden Hazret-i Sevde (ra) ile birlikte oturdu. Hz. Sevde bulamac\u0131 yemiyor, Hazret-i Ai\u015fe ise yemesi i\u00e7in \u0131srar ediyordu. Hazret-i Sevde ve Hazret-i Ai\u015fe\u2019nin aras\u0131nda oturan Efendimiz, onlara m\u00fcdahale etmeden onlar\u0131 izliyordu. Hazret-i Ai\u015fe Annemiz, Hazret-i Sevde Annemize:
\n\u201c-Yemezsen y\u00fcz\u00fcne s\u00fcrerim.\u201d dedi.
\nSevde V\u00e2lidemiz, yememeye devam edince Hazret-i Ai\u015fe, bulamac\u0131 onun y\u00fcz\u00fcne s\u00fcrd\u00fc. Bunun \u00fczerine Efendimiz (sav), Hazret-i Sevde\u2019nin elini al\u0131p bulamaca bat\u0131rd\u0131 ve:
\n\u201c-Sen de ona s\u00fcr!\u201d dedi.
\nDaha sonra onlar\u0131n h\u00e2lini g\u00fclerek izledi.\u00a0(Heysem\u00ee, Zev\u00e2id, 4, 315-316)<\/p>\n

<\/h3>\n

Yalan ve K\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 \u015eakalar\u0131 Yasaklad\u0131<\/h3>\n

\u0130nsan \u015fahsiyetini, onurunu rencide eden b\u00fct\u00fcn s\u00f6z ve hareketler, kul hakk\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7i\u011fnemektir. Toplum d\u00fczeni, b\u00fct\u00fcn fertlerin haklar\u0131na riayet etmekle sa\u011flan\u0131r. Kendi hakk\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7i\u011fnenmesini arzu etmeyen insan\u0131n, bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hakk\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zetmesi ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r. Yalanla e\u015f anlaml\u0131 \u015fakalar, bizzat yalan oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in haramd\u0131r. Ancak \u015faka, yalan, alay, hakaret gibi a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131 manada olmamak ve a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 gitmemek kayd\u0131yla yap\u0131l\u0131rsa buna m\u00fcsaade edilmi\u015ftir. Muhatab\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrecek \u015fekilde yap\u0131lan fiil\u00ee ve s\u00f6zl\u00fc \u015fakalar da Hz. Peygamber\u2019in hadisi ile yasaklanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r:<\/p>\n

Hz. Peygamber bir grup M\u00fcsl\u00fcman ile birlikte bir yolculu\u011fa \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Ak\u015fam namaz\u0131 k\u0131l\u0131nd\u0131ktan sonra, yorgunluktan uyuyanlar oldu. Birisi bir urgan al\u0131p yan\u0131nda uyuyan arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n aya\u011f\u0131na ba\u011flad\u0131 ve \u00e7ekti. Neye u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlamayan o ki\u015fi korkup ba\u011f\u0131rd\u0131. Hz. Muhammed (sav) bu hareketten ho\u015flanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in:<\/p>\n

\u201cHi\u00e7bir M\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u2019a, di\u011fer bir M\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u2019\u0131 korkutmak helal de\u011fildir\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

diye buyurdu.<\/p>\n

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