{"id":2277,"date":"2016-07-25T01:19:37","date_gmt":"2016-07-24T22:19:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=2277"},"modified":"2016-07-25T01:19:37","modified_gmt":"2016-07-24T22:19:37","slug":"esler-birbirinin-ortusu-olmali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/2277\/esler-birbirinin-ortusu-olmali\/","title":{"rendered":"E\u015fler Birbirinin \u00d6rt\u00fcs\u00fc Olmal\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c2ile sa\u00e2deti, \u00e7ok m\u00fchim bir mevzudur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc erkek olsun, kad\u0131n olsun; \u00e2ilesinde mutlu olan kimse, genel itibariyle \u00e7evresine de mutluluk sa\u00e7ar. \u00c2ilesinde mutlu ve huzurlu olmayan ki\u015finin g\u00f6nl\u00fc de yine um\u00fbmiyetle gaml\u0131 ve dertlidir\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hak, b\u00fct\u00fcn varl\u0131klar\u0131 \u00e7ift olarak yaratm\u0131\u015f ve birbirine muhta\u00e7 k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla insan da erkek ve kad\u0131n cinsi olarak \u00e7ift yarat\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u0130kisi, birbirinin ayr\u0131lmaz par\u00e7as\u0131 ve birbirini tamamlay\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsan\u0131n akl\u0131, neye itibar etti\u011fine, neyin pe\u015finde ko\u015ftu\u011funa bakarak anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. Mesel\u00e2 ak\u0131ll\u0131 bir han\u0131m, hayr\u0131-\u015ferri iyi anlam\u0131\u015fsa, ge\u00e7ici d\u00fcnya hayat\u0131ndaki zevk \u00fc safa, varl\u0131k ve konfora fazla tak\u0131lmaz; b\u00f6ylece sarayda da olsa, kul\u00fcbede de g\u00f6nl\u00fc huzur i\u00e7inde, \u00e2deta iki d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 da cennet hayat\u0131 h\u00e2linde ya\u015far. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u00fcnyan\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn varl\u0131k ve g\u00fczelli\u011fi, en muhte\u015fem \u015fekliyle de bizim olsa ge\u00e7icidir, noksand\u0131r ve netice itibariyle insan\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc tatmin etmez. \u0130nsan, her \u015feye sahip olsa, hep daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131 ister. Bu y\u00fczden insan\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc huzura erdirecek tek \u015fey, All\u00e2h\u2019a iman, O\u2019na duyulan muhabbet ve itaattir. Bunun d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki hi\u00e7bir \u015fey, insan\u0131n ruhunu tatmin etmez.<\/p>\n

Kad\u0131n ve erkekler de as\u0131l saadeti, i\u015fte-g\u00fc\u00e7te, makam ve mevk\u00eede, rahat ve konforda aramamal\u0131d\u0131r. Bunlar\u0131n s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ve me\u015fakkati, beraberinde getirdikleri mutluluktan az de\u011fildir.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\u00c2ilede huzur, e\u015flerin s\u00fcrekli birbirlerini dinleyip anlamas\u0131 ve muhatab\u0131n\u0131n kendisinden ne istedi\u011fine dikkat etmesi ile meydana gelir. Han\u0131m, beyinin isteklerini anlamay\u0131 ve onlar\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn mertebe cevapland\u0131rmay\u0131 \u00f6ncelik h\u00e2line getirmeli; erkekler de han\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcne ula\u015facak yollar aramal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

S\u00e2liha kad\u0131n, etraf\u0131na saadet sa\u00e7an cennet kokulu bir \u00e7i\u00e7ek gibidir\u2026<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Kad\u0131n zeki olmal\u0131; e\u015fine ve \u00e2ilesine kendisini sevdirmeyi bilmelidir. Bunun en emin yolu, kocas\u0131na itaatk\u00e2r ve h\u00fcrmetli, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na \u015fefkat ve ilgili olmaktan ge\u00e7er. Dik ba\u015fl\u0131, inat\u00e7\u0131 olmak hi\u00e7bir insana bir \u015fey kazand\u0131rmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Ak\u0131ll\u0131 ve s\u00e2liha kad\u0131n, k\u0131ymet bi\u00e7ilemeyecek kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck bir hazinedir\u2026<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

All\u00e2h\u2019\u0131 ve Peygamberini bilen, kullu\u011funu l\u00e2y\u0131k\u0131yla yerine getirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan, kocas\u0131na sayg\u0131, h\u00fcrmet g\u00f6steren, hay\u0131rl\u0131 i\u015flerde kocas\u0131na itaat edip destek olan b\u00f6yle bir han\u0131m\u0131n k\u0131ymetini bilmeyen erkek de, ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 duvarlara vursa yeridir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u0131ymeti bilinmeyen, \u015f\u00fckr\u00fc \u00eef\u00e2 edilmeyen nimetler, elden al\u0131n\u0131r\u2026<\/p>\n

Evlilik hayat\u0131nda, kad\u0131n ve erkek birer \u00f6rt\u00fc gibi olmal\u0131; birbirinin eksik ve kusurlar\u0131n\u0131 kapatmal\u0131d\u0131r\u2026<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Hem birbirlerine kar\u015f\u0131 ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc ve affedici olmal\u0131, hem de iki taraf\u0131n \u00e2ilelerinden kaynaklanabilecek kusurlar\u0131 engin bir m\u00fcsamaha ile affedebilmelidir. Zira en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck meseleler bile \u00fczerinde durula durula b\u00fcy\u00fcr. \u0130ncir \u00e7ekirde\u011fini doldurmayacak basit meseleler dolay\u0131s\u0131yla nice g\u00fczel yuvalar\u0131n y\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131na \u00e7ok kere \u015f\u00e2hid olmu\u015fuzdur. Ak\u0131ll\u0131 ve firasetli olan \u00e2ilelerde ise, en b\u00fcy\u00fck meseleler bile k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcr, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcr, \u00e2deta bir \u201cyok\u201d h\u00fckm\u00fcne d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

Huzur ve saadet dolu bir yuvada yeti\u015fen \u00e7ocuklarda, mutlu olurlar. Durmadan stres i\u00e7inde ya\u015famaz; hayata kar\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7lerinde kin, nefret ve \u00f6fke biriktirmezler.<\/p>\n

Anne ve babalar, g\u00fczellikleri \u00f6nce kendi \u015fah\u0131slar\u0131nda uygulamal\u0131 ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na \u00f6rnek olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar\u2026<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\u00c7ocuk, anne ve babaya sevgi ile sayg\u0131y\u0131, kom\u015fu ve misafirlere ikram ve ihtiram\u0131, b\u00fcy\u00fcklere h\u00fcrmet, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcklere merhameti hep \u00e2ilede \u00f6\u011frenir.<\/p>\n

Evlerimiz, All\u00e2h\u2019\u0131n ve Ras\u00fbl\u00fc\u2019n\u00fcn \u00f6\u011frenildi\u011fi, \u00f6\u011fretildi\u011fi birer k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck mektep olmal\u0131d\u0131r\u2026<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z, bu dersh\u00e2nede, en g\u00fczel muallim olan anne ve babalar\u0131ndan, All\u00e2h\u2019\u0131 ve Ras\u00fbl\u00fc\u2019n\u00fcn \u00f6rnek ahl\u00e2k\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmelidirler.<\/p>\n

K\u0131sacas\u0131, g\u00f6n\u00fcllerdeki mutluluk evlere, evlerdeki mutluluk ise b\u00fct\u00fcn mahalle ve sokaklara ta\u015fmal\u0131; insanl\u0131k, M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n g\u00f6n\u00fcl h\u00e2nelerinin \u015fefkat, merhamet ve muhabbeti ile huzura kavu\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r. Cen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hak, bizim yuvalar\u0131m\u0131za da bu il\u00e2h\u00ee sekinet ve huzuru nasib eylesin. \u00c2min.<\/p>\n

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\u00c2ile sa\u00e2deti, \u00e7ok m\u00fchim bir mevzudur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc erkek olsun, kad\u0131n olsun; \u00e2ilesinde mutlu olan kimse, genel itibariyle \u00e7evresine de mutluluk...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[130,128,129,8],"class_list":["post-2277","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","tag-esler-birbirinin-ortusu-olmali","tag-gaziantep-aile-terapisi","tag-sehitkamil-aile-danismani","tag-sehitkamil-aile-danismanim"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2277","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2277"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2277\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2277"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2277"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2277"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}