{"id":2421,"date":"2016-08-09T01:41:00","date_gmt":"2016-08-08T22:41:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=2421"},"modified":"2016-08-09T01:41:00","modified_gmt":"2016-08-08T22:41:00","slug":"cocuklarinizla-saglikli-iletisim-icin-oneriler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/2421\/cocuklarinizla-saglikli-iletisim-icin-oneriler\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zla Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u0130leti\u015fim \u0130\u00e7in \u00d6neriler"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Onlarla konu\u015furken <strong>a\u00e7\u0131k ve net<\/strong> olmal\u0131y\u0131z:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYemek haz\u0131r\u201d diye mutfaktan seslenmek yerine \u201c Salona gidip g\u00f6recekleri mesafeden \u201cTV kapat\u0131p masaya gelin, yemek yiyoruz\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Onlar\u0131n dinlemesi ve anlamas\u0131 i\u00e7in <strong>s\u00fcre<\/strong> vermeliyiz, gerekiyorsa mesaj\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 <strong>tekrar etmelerini<\/strong>isteyebiliriz:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u015eimdi hep beraber i\u00e7eri girece\u011fiz ve herkesin elini s\u0131k\u0131p merhaba diyece\u011fiz\u201d biraz bekledikten sonra\u00a0 \u201cne yapaca\u011f\u0131z?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Yap\u0131c\u0131 ve cesaretlendirici olmal\u0131\u00a0 yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131 ele\u015ftirmek yerine \u00e7ocu\u011fun <strong>olumlu yanlar\u0131na<\/strong>odaklanarak mesaj\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 vermeliyiz:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNeden \u00e7izmelerini giymedin, spor ayakkab\u0131lar\u0131n pislenecek !\u201d yerine \u201cspor ayakkab\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u011fc\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u011flayabilmi\u015fsin, ama bir daha ki sefere bah\u00e7eye \u00e7\u0131karken \u00e7izmelerini giyersen spor ayakkab\u0131lar\u0131n temiz kal\u0131r\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Uygun durumlarda <strong>se\u00e7enekler <\/strong>sunabilmeliyiz,<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHava so\u011fuk, ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 korumak i\u00e7in kap\u00fc\u015fonunu mu takmak istersin, bereni mi takmak istersin?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Gerekti\u011finde ne yapmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011finin de\u011fil <strong>ne yapmas\u0131<\/strong> gerekti\u011finin alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izmeliyiz.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEllerinle yemek yeme!\u201d yerine \u201cK\u00f6fteni yerken \u00e7atal kullan\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131zla konu\u015furken pozitif ve do\u011frudan ifade etmeye y\u00f6nelik bir dil kullanmak i\u015fimizi kolayla\u015ft\u0131racak ve \u00a0etkin ileti\u015fim kurmam\u0131z i\u00e7in ilk ad\u0131m olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ok da kolay de\u011fil, ama denemeye ba\u015flamak ve al\u0131\u015fmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak i\u00e7in hi\u00e7 bir zaman ge\u00e7 de\u011fil.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sorunlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Daha Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc Ad\u0131na Profesyonel Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k Hizmeti<\/p>\n<p>(Y\u00fcz-y\u00fcze veya Online Randevu) Alabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/randevu-al\" target=\"_blank\" 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