{"id":2541,"date":"2016-08-14T02:35:46","date_gmt":"2016-08-13T23:35:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=2541"},"modified":"2016-08-14T02:35:46","modified_gmt":"2016-08-13T23:35:46","slug":"evlilikte-iliskiler-ortak-gelecek-planli-olmali-biz-olmali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/2541\/evlilikte-iliskiler-ortak-gelecek-planli-olmali-biz-olmali\/","title":{"rendered":"Evlilikte ili\u015fkiler ortak gelecek planl\u0131 olmal\u0131 B\u0130Z olmal\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Evlilikte ili\u015fkiler ortak gelecek planl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Evlilikteki ili\u015fkiler s\u00f6z konusu oldu\u011funda her iki ki\u015finin ge\u00e7mi\u015fi, bug\u00fcn\u00fc ve yar\u0131n\u0131 vard\u0131r. Ve ki\u015fi ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 hik\u00e2yeler ve bilin\u00e7 alt\u0131yla gelece\u011fe k\u00f6pr\u00fc kurar. \u0130li\u015fkinin \u015fuan da sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in e\u015flerin ortak bir gelecek i\u00e7in planlar kurmas\u0131 \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Aile i\u00e7erisinde bireysel planlamalardan ziyade aile b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fc i\u00e7inde bir planlama \u00f6nemli. Kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 ortak fikir al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fleriyle\u00a0planlamalar\u0131 daha yap\u0131c\u0131 \u015fekle getirilebilir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Evlilikte ili\u015fkilerin sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in her konuda konu\u015fula bilmelidir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Evlilik bu g\u00fcne kadar iki farkl\u0131 hayatt\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f ve iki farkl\u0131 d\u00fcnya g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcne sahip iki ki\u015finin, bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 ve ge\u00e7mi\u015flerinin birle\u015fimi oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in, muhakkak her konu \u00fczerinde konu\u015fulmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ve bu konularda anla\u015fmaya varmak \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Evlilikte ili\u015fkiler kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 bireyselli\u011fe sayg\u0131yla y\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Evliliklerdeki ili\u015fkilerde ki\u015filerin bireyselli\u011fe de\u011fer vermesi \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Unutulmamal\u0131d\u0131r ki e\u015fler birbirinden farkl\u0131 bireylerdir, birbirlerinin uzant\u0131s\u0131 veya kopyas\u0131 de\u011fillerdir. Birbirlerinin ki\u015fisel haklar\u0131na sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermelidirler. E\u015flerde iki taraf\u0131nda bireyselli\u011fine destek verilirse daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve sayg\u0131 \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde ili\u015fkileri ilerleyebilir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>* Evlilikte bireyler ili\u015fkilerinin s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izmelidir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Evlilikte bireylerin ili\u015fkilerine s\u0131n\u0131rlamalar getirmesi \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Bu s\u0131n\u0131rlar ili\u015fkinin korunmas\u0131n\u0131, ili\u015fkinin mahremiyetini ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde ilerlemesini sa\u011flar. Bu s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n belirlenmedi\u011fi taktirde bireyler kendi aile yak\u0131nlar\u0131ndan ve \u00e7evrelerinden m\u00fcdahaleye maruz kalabilirler. Ve zamanla bunlar ili\u015fkilerine yans\u0131ya bilir, buda ili\u015fkiyi gittik\u00e7e \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcms\u00fczl\u00fc\u011fe s\u00fcr\u00fckleye bilir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>* Evlilikte ili\u015fkinin geli\u015fimini sa\u011flamak \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Evliliklerde ili\u015fkilerinin geli\u015fememe nedeni; bazen biri bazen de her ikisinde a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 derecede aileye ba\u011fl\u0131 olmas\u0131 ya da kendi yeti\u015fkin olma s\u00fcre\u00e7lerini tam manas\u0131yla tamamlayamamalar\u0131ndan kaynaklan\u0131r. Hatta Bizim k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fczde aile b\u00fcy\u00fckleri bazen de karde\u015flerin \u00e7ifttin yan\u0131nda uzun s\u00fcre kalmalar\u0131 da ili\u015fkinin geli\u015fimini olumsuz y\u00f6nde etkiler.<\/p>\n<p>Evlilikte elbette bireysellik vard\u0131r ama \u00fcst \u00e7at\u0131s\u0131 B\u0130Z olmal\u0131 sen ben \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmaya B\u0130Z ise daha yap\u0131s\u0131 olmaya y\u00f6neliktir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sorunlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Daha Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc Ad\u0131na Profesyonel Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k Hizmeti<\/p>\n<p>(Y\u00fcz-y\u00fcze veya Online Randevu) Alabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/randevu-al\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2455\" src=\"http:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.okanbal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/psikolojik-danisma-ogrenci-danismanligi-randevual1-gaziantep.png?resize=298%2C95\" alt=\"psikolojik-danisma-ogrenci-danismanligi-randevual1-gaziantep\" width=\"298\" height=\"95\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Evlilikte ili\u015fkiler ortak gelecek planl\u0131d\u0131r. Evlilikteki ili\u015fkiler s\u00f6z konusu oldu\u011funda her iki ki\u015finin ge\u00e7mi\u015fi, bug\u00fcn\u00fc ve yar\u0131n\u0131 vard\u0131r. Ve ki\u015fi&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2542,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[105,52,99,174],"class_list":["post-2541","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","tag-evlilik-danismani-gaziantep","tag-evlilik-terapisi","tag-evlilikte-iletisim","tag-evlilikte-mutluluk"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2541","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2541"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2541\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2541"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2541"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2541"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}