{"id":2738,"date":"2016-08-21T19:16:16","date_gmt":"2016-08-21T16:16:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=2738"},"modified":"2016-08-21T19:16:16","modified_gmt":"2016-08-21T16:16:16","slug":"bosanma-esnasinda-cocuklarin-psikoloji-etkileniyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/2738\/bosanma-esnasinda-cocuklarin-psikoloji-etkileniyor\/","title":{"rendered":"Bo\u015fanma Esnas\u0131nda \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n Psikoloji Etkileniyor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuk i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmesi muhtemel felaket senaryolar\u0131ndan birisi de ailenin par\u00e7alanmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk g\u00f6z\u00fcyle ailenin par\u00e7alanmas\u0131na sebep olabilecek durumlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda ise bo\u015fanma gelir.<\/p>\n<p>Bowlby\u2019nin ba\u011flanma kuram\u0131na g\u00f6re, \u00c7ocu\u011fun, sevgi ve g\u00fcven temin edecek bir veya birka\u00e7 ki\u015fiyle geli\u015ftirece\u011fi bir ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n, onun sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 geli\u015fimi i\u00e7in esas oldu\u011funda bir g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f birli\u011fi vard\u0131r: O ba\u011f\u0131n kopmas\u0131, ruhsal ac\u0131 ve hiddet yarat\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015fta \u00e7ocu\u011fun, bo\u015fanma s\u00fcrecindeki ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 sonraki d\u00f6nemlerde davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 etkilemekte.<\/p>\n<p>Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 boyunca ailenin yap\u0131s\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ferek iki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck par\u00e7aya ayr\u0131lmakta ve bu iki par\u00e7a aras\u0131nda kuraca\u011f\u0131 ili\u015fkiyi ve dengeleri \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendi ba\u015f\u0131na oturtmas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Bununla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kabilecek davran\u0131\u015f repertuar\u0131na \u00e7ocuklar genellikle sahip olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in, bu noktada ebeveynlere \u00e7ok i\u015f d\u00fc\u015fmekte. Ebeveyn \u00e7ocukla pazarl\u0131k yapmamal\u0131, di\u011fer ebeveyni k\u00f6t\u00fclememeli, \u00e7ocuktan b\u00fcy\u00fck kararlar almas\u0131na sebep olacak beklentiler i\u00e7inde olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Ebeveynler ondan taraf olmas\u0131n\u0131 beklememeli.<\/p>\n<p>Bo\u015fanma ile birlikte bir\u00e7ok zaman ailenin geliri de azalmakta, bu durum s\u0131radan bir ekonomi gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli sonu\u00e7lara varabilmekte. Ekonomi y\u00fcz\u00fcnden oturulan evden, semtten ta\u015f\u0131nma \u00e7ocuklarda olumsuz izler b\u0131rakabilir. Kimi zaman \u00e7ocu\u011fun okulu de\u011fi\u015fmekte, kimi zaman ise mahalle arkada\u015flar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015febilmekte. Bu \u00e7ok basit gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de sosyal ili\u015fkiler a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan problem yaratabilmekte.<\/p>\n<p>Bo\u015fanma s\u00fcrecinde aile aras\u0131nda duygusal a\u00e7\u0131dan ya\u015fanan bunal\u0131m d\u00f6nemi, kimi zaman kendini \u00f6fke ile g\u00f6sterebilir, bu da \u00e7ocu\u011fun duygusal a\u00e7\u0131dan kald\u0131rabilece\u011fi bir durum de\u011fildir. B\u00f6yle bir d\u00f6nemde ebeveynler anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar ile duygusal olarak fazlas\u0131yla yara al\u0131rken, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n b\u00f6yle bir d\u00f6nemi desteksiz atlatmalar\u0131 \u00e7ok m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sorunlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Daha Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc Ad\u0131na Profesyonel Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k Hizmeti<\/p>\n<p>(Y\u00fcz-y\u00fcze veya Online Randevu) Alabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/randevu-al\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2455\" src=\"http:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.okanbal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/psikolojik-danisma-ogrenci-danismanligi-randevual1-gaziantep.png?resize=298%2C95\" alt=\"psikolojik-danisma-ogrenci-danismanligi-randevual1-gaziantep\" width=\"298\" height=\"95\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuk i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmesi muhtemel felaket senaryolar\u0131ndan birisi de ailenin par\u00e7alanmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk g\u00f6z\u00fcyle ailenin par\u00e7alanmas\u0131na sebep olabilecek durumlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda ise bo\u015fanma&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2740,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[211,212,213,172],"class_list":["post-2738","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","tag-bosanma-psikolojisi","tag-bosanmak-cozum-mu","tag-cocuklar-ve-bosanma","tag-online-aile-danismani"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2738","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2738"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2738\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2738"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2738"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2738"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}