{"id":3274,"date":"2016-09-03T22:54:15","date_gmt":"2016-09-03T19:54:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=3274"},"modified":"2016-09-03T22:54:15","modified_gmt":"2016-09-03T19:54:15","slug":"sorumlulugunu-bilen-cocuklar-yetistirmek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/3274\/sorumlulugunu-bilen-cocuklar-yetistirmek\/","title":{"rendered":"Sorumlulu\u011funu bilen \u00e7ocuklar yeti\u015ftirmek"},"content":{"rendered":"

En iyi modeller anne babalard\u0131r. Sorumlulu\u011funu bilen \u00e7ocuklar yeti\u015ftirmek isteyen anne babalar, \u00f6nce kendi sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 yerine getirmelidirler.<\/p>\n

Ailelerin \u00e7o\u011funun ortak serzeni\u015fleridir sorumsuzluk. Sorumsuzluktan kastetti\u011finiz nedir? Bir \u00f6rnekle a\u00e7\u0131klar m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z? diye soruldu\u011funda, Sabahlar\u0131 ge\u00e7 kalkar, yata\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve odas\u0131n\u0131 toplamaz, \u00f6devlerini yapmaz, verilen g\u00f6revleri yerine getirmez gibi c\u00fcmleler gelir sorunun ard\u0131ndan.<\/p>\n

Ailenin ne istedi\u011fi a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131r asl\u0131nda. \u00c7ocu\u011funun belirlenmi\u015f bir tak\u0131m kurallara uymas\u0131, sorumsuzlu\u011fu ortadan kald\u0131racak gibi g\u00f6z\u00fckmektedir.<\/p>\n

Zannedildi\u011fi gibi kolay de\u011fildir bu kurallar\u0131 benimsetmek. \u0130\u015f yine aileye d\u00fc\u015fer. Kurallar\u0131n benimsetilmesi i\u00e7in disiplin gerekir. Kurallar disiplini olu\u015fturur ve disiplin, \u00e7ocu\u011fa sorumlulu\u011fu \u00f6\u011fretme a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocu\u011fun ilk g\u00f6zlerini a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131, a\u011flamalar\u0131na ilk cevap verildi\u011fi, ilk model alarak \u00f6\u011frenmenin ger\u00e7ekle\u015fti\u011fi yer ku\u015fkusuz ailedir. \u00c7ocuk do\u011fdu\u011fundan itibaren fark\u0131nda olmadan kurallar b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fc i\u00e7ine do\u011far. Karn\u0131n\u0131n doymas\u0131 ve alt\u0131n\u0131n temizlenmesi i\u00e7in \u00f6nce a\u011flamas\u0131 gerekir.<\/p>\n

Kurallar\u0131n \u00f6\u011frenilmesi ku\u015fkusuz kendili\u011finden ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmez. En iyi modeller anne babalard\u0131r. Anne babalar, \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n sorumluluk duygusunun geli\u015fmesine katk\u0131da bulunurlar. Sorumlulu\u011funu bilen \u00e7ocuk ya da \u00e7ocuklar yeti\u015ftirmek isteyen anne babalar, \u00f6nce kendi sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 yerine getirmelidirler. Sabahlar\u0131 ge\u00e7 kalkt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in s\u00fcrekli i\u015fine ge\u00e7 kalan bir baba, sabahlar\u0131 servise yeti\u015femeyen \u00e7ocu\u011funa, sorumluluk duygusunu kazand\u0131rmay\u0131 ba\u015farmas\u0131 zor olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocukta sorumluluk duygusunun kazan\u0131lmas\u0131ndan \u00f6nce \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendi otonomisine hakim olmas\u0131 gerekmektedir. Bunun i\u00e7in, \u00c7ocuk yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n sonu\u00e7lar\u0131yla ba\u015f ba\u015fa b\u0131rak\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Sabah uyanamayan \u00e7ocu\u011fun okula ge\u00e7 kalmas\u0131na, \u00f6devini yapmayan \u00e7ocu\u011fun k\u00f6t\u00fc not almas\u0131na m\u00fcdahale edilmemelidir. B\u00f6ylece \u00e7ocuk yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n sonu\u00e7lar\u0131ndan ders almay\u0131 ve kendi kendini kontrol etmeyi \u00f6\u011frenecektir. Bu \u015fekilde \u00e7ocuk deneyerek yan\u0131larak sorumluluk duygusuna sahip olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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En iyi modeller anne babalard\u0131r. Sorumlulu\u011funu bilen \u00e7ocuklar yeti\u015ftirmek isteyen anne babalar, \u00f6nce kendi sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 yerine getirmelidirler. Ailelerin \u00e7o\u011funun ortak...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3275,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,145],"tags":[151,215,261,182,262],"class_list":["post-3274","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","category-psikoloji","tag-gaziantep-psikolojik-danisma","tag-online-pedagog","tag-online-psikolojik-danisma","tag-online-terapi","tag-sorumlulugunu-bilen-cocuklar-yetistirmek"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3274","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3274"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3274\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3274"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3274"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3274"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}