{"id":3277,"date":"2024-11-09T03:29:44","date_gmt":"2024-11-09T03:29:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=3277"},"modified":"2024-12-29T12:37:21","modified_gmt":"2024-12-29T12:37:21","slug":"ne-zaman-evlilik-terapistine-gidilmeli-online-terapi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/3277\/ne-zaman-evlilik-terapistine-gidilmeli-online-terapi\/","title":{"rendered":"Ne Zaman Evlilik Terapistine Gidilmeli?, Online Terapi"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c7iftler aras\u0131 ili\u015fkide, rutin haller d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda ili\u015fkileri de\u011fi\u015ftiren baz\u0131 durumlar ve bu durumlara uyum yetene\u011fi, ili\u015fkinin dengesi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00f6nemlidir. Hamilelik, do\u011fum, emeklilik gibi ya\u015fam d\u00f6ng\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc etkileyecek olaylar \u00e7iftlerin yeni denge hali kurmas\u0131n\u0131 gerektirir. \u00d6rne\u011fin emeklilik ve ard\u0131ndan yeni bir i\u015f \u00e7ok stabil bir ili\u015fkide \u00e7iftlerden biri eski rolde \u0131srarl\u0131 olmas\u0131 halinde ili\u015fkiye zarar gelebilir.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ift kavram\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fik de\u011ferler sistemi, duygusal, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsel ve davran\u0131\u015fsal farkl\u0131l\u0131klar ta\u015f\u0131yan, en az\u0131ndan iki de\u011fi\u015fik sistemin birle\u015fmesi anlam\u0131na gelir. \u00c7ok basit gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de ne zaman yemek yenece\u011fi, hangi sabunun kullan\u0131laca\u011f\u0131, ailelerin ne s\u0131kl\u0131kta ziyaret edilece\u011fi ve benzeri pek \u00e7ok \u015fey a\u00e7\u0131k olmayan ortakl\u0131k \u015fartlar\u0131ndand\u0131r. Dan\u0131\u015fma veren ki\u015fi taraf\u0131ndan \u00e7iftin k\u00f6ken ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 aile yap\u0131s\u0131, politik, dini fikirleri, kent ya da k\u00f6y k\u00f6kenli olu\u015flar\u0131 anla\u015fma i\u00e7inde dikkate al\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00c7iftler ne zaman terapiye ihtiya\u00e7 duyar<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Ekonomik nedenler en \u00f6nemli mesele:<\/strong> Paran\u0131n nas\u0131l kazan\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 ve nas\u0131l harcanaca\u011f\u0131 ile ilgili netlikler olmamas\u0131, e\u015flerden birinin onaylamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bi\u00e7imde ba\u015fkalar\u0131na mali destek sa\u011flamas\u0131 (\u00f6zellikle kar\u0131 veya kocan\u0131n k\u00f6ken ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 aileye)<\/p>\n

2. Ebeveynlerin \u00e7ocukla ile ilgili ortak karar almamas\u0131 sorun:<\/strong> \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 kimin \u00fcstlenece\u011fi, e\u011fitimlerinin nas\u0131l olaca\u011f\u0131, disiplinlerinin nas\u0131l sa\u011flanaca\u011f\u0131 en \u00f6nemli tart\u0131\u015fma konusudur. Genellikle e\u015flerden birinin ebeveynlik i\u015fini tamamen \u00fczerine ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ailelerde ya da bir taraf\u0131n bu konular\u0131 daha iyi bildi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc \u00e7iftlerde sorunlar daha s\u0131k ya\u015fan\u0131yor. Ebeveynlerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ile ilgili sorumlulu\u011fu ortak bir \u015fekilde y\u00fcklenmesi ili\u015fkinin sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

3. \u00c7iftler birbirine zaman ay\u0131rmazsa \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma ba\u015fl\u0131yor:<\/strong> E\u015flerin birbirlerine, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na, arkada\u015flar\u0131na, akrabalar\u0131na ay\u0131rd\u0131klar\u0131 zaman\u0131n miktar ve kalitesi \u00f6nemlidir. Birbirlerine yeterli zaman ay\u0131ramamalar\u0131 \u00e7ift olmalar\u0131n\u0131 engeller. \u00c7iftlerin en s\u0131k yak\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fey \u201cBiz konu\u015fam\u0131yoruz\u201d veya \u201cArt\u0131k konu\u015facak bir \u015fey bulam\u0131yoruz\u201d tarz\u0131ndaki ifadeler oluyor.<\/p>\n

4. \u00c7ekirdek aile olamama hali ili\u015fkiyi y\u0131prat\u0131yor: <\/strong>\u00dclkemizde giderek azalmas\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131n olduk\u00e7a s\u0131k rastlanan bir durum, e\u015flerden birinin genelde de erke\u011fin ailesiyle ya\u015famak ya da e\u015flerden birinin anne-babas\u0131yla oturmakt\u0131r. Bu dan\u0131\u015fmaya gelen \u00e7iftlerin s\u0131kl\u0131kla tart\u0131\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 bir konudur. \u201cSen onlar\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcnden \u00e7\u0131kmazs\u0131n\u201d, \u201cBu evde benim konumun ne zaten\u201d gibi c\u00fcmleler su\u00e7lay\u0131c\u0131 olarak tekrarlan\u0131r. Bunun biraz farkl\u0131 \u015fekli de bir s\u00fcre, b\u00fcy\u00fckleriyle ya\u015fay\u0131p sonradan kendilerine ev kuran \u00e7iftlerin ba\u015f ba\u015fa kald\u0131klar\u0131nda ili\u015fkiyi y\u00fcr\u00fctememeleri durumudur.<\/p>\n

Sorunlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Daha Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc Ad\u0131na Profesyonel Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k Hizmeti<\/p>\n

(Y\u00fcz-y\u00fcze veya Online Randevu) Alabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

\"psikolojik-danisma-ogrenci-danismanligi-randevual1-gaziantep\"<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00c7iftler aras\u0131 ili\u015fkide, rutin haller d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda ili\u015fkileri de\u011fi\u015ftiren baz\u0131 durumlar ve bu durumlara uyum yetene\u011fi, ili\u015fkinin dengesi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7879,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,1241,1242],"tags":[239,105,247,248,172,181,182,163],"class_list":["post-3277","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","category-cift-terapisi","category-evlilik-terapisi","tag-evliligi-guclendirmenin-tuyolari","tag-evlilik-danismani-gaziantep","tag-gaziantep-evlilik-terapisi","tag-istanbul-evlilik-terapisi","tag-online-aile-danismani","tag-online-danismanlik","tag-online-terapi","tag-sehitkamil-psikolog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3277","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3277"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3277\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8268,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3277\/revisions\/8268"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7879"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3277"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3277"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3277"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}