{"id":3350,"date":"2024-11-09T02:26:34","date_gmt":"2024-11-09T02:26:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=3350"},"modified":"2024-12-29T13:06:23","modified_gmt":"2024-12-29T13:06:23","slug":"bosanan-aileler-cocuklarini-ihmal-etmemeli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/3350\/bosanan-aileler-cocuklarini-ihmal-etmemeli\/","title":{"rendered":"Bo\u015fanan aileler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 ihmal etmemeli"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"excerpt\">\n<p>Bo\u015fanan ailelere \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli uyar\u0131lar yapan psikolog ve pedagoglar, \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 \u00f6zellikle psikolojik yak\u0131nl\u0131k g\u00f6sterilmesi gerekti\u011finin alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7iziyorlar. Uzmanlar ayr\u0131lsalar dahi anne ve baban\u0131n sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131n devam etti\u011fini, iki taraf\u0131nda \u00e7ocukla sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ileti\u015fim kurmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fun ruh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in vazge\u00e7ilmez oldu\u011funa dikkat \u00e7ekiyor.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"content\">\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Uzmanlar, bo\u015fanman\u0131n ard\u0131ndan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n emniyetli aile yap\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n birden de\u011fi\u015fti\u011fini fark ettiklerini hatta anne ve babalar\u0131n\u0131n ayr\u0131lmalar\u0131nda kendilerini su\u00e7lu hissedebildiklerini belirtiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Ailede e\u015flerin birbirine ilgi ve sevgi konusunda cimri davranmamalar\u0131, k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 ve \u015fahs\u0131na dokunmadan konu\u015fabilme sanat\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmeleri ayr\u0131lmalar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7ilebilecektir. \u00c7o\u011fu zamanda ili\u015fki \u00e7\u0131kmaza girmeden profesyonel yard\u0131m almak \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n<p>Bo\u015fanan taraflar\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek yerine \u00e7ocuk \u00fczerinden kar\u015f\u0131 taraftan intikam alma yolunu se\u00e7ebiliyor. Bunun zaten yaral\u0131 olan \u00e7ocu\u011fun psikolojisini tamamen bozulmas\u0131na sebep olmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bo\u015fanmadaki \u00e7ocu\u011fun psikolojisini \u015f\u00f6yledir: \u201c\u00c7ocuklar emniyetli aile yap\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n birden de\u011fi\u015fti\u011fini ve yok oldu\u011funu fark ediyorlar. Bu durumdan dolay\u0131 \u00f6zellikle kayg\u0131, korku, anne ve baban\u0131n aras\u0131nda kalma, endi\u015fe ve hatta anne ve baban\u0131n ayr\u0131lmas\u0131nda kendilerini su\u00e7lu hissedebiliyorlar.\u201d Kaybetme korkusunun yo\u011fun oldu\u011fu okul \u00f6ncesi ya\u015ftaki \u00e7ocuklarda, bo\u015fanma sonras\u0131nda, baz\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f bozukluklar\u0131yla birlikte kaybetme korkusu da yerle\u015fir. Okula ya da bir ba\u015fka yere gitmek istemez dolay\u0131s\u0131yla yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feylere konsantre olamaz. Hatta uykular\u0131 bile s\u0131k s\u0131k b\u00f6l\u00fcn\u00fcr. Korkulu r\u00fcyalar g\u00f6rme, a\u011flayarak uyanmalar artabilir. Uyku ve yemek problemleri de ya\u015fanabilir.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ayr\u0131lsalar dahi anne ve baban\u0131n sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131n devam etmektedir. Her iki tarafada sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 yerine getirmede engel \u00e7\u0131karmamalar\u0131 gerekmektedir. \u00c7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 \u00f6zellikle psikolojik yak\u0131nl\u0131k g\u00f6sterilmesi iki taraf\u0131nda \u00e7ocukla sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ileti\u015fim i\u00e7erisinde olmas\u0131 gerekmektedir.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Sorunlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Daha Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc Ad\u0131na Profesyonel Aile-Evlilik\u00a0Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k Hizmeti<\/p>\n<p>(Y\u00fcz-y\u00fcze veya Online Randevu) Alabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/randevu-al\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2455\" src=\"http:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.okanbal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/psikolojik-danisma-ogrenci-danismanligi-randevual1-gaziantep.png?resize=298%2C95\" alt=\"psikolojik-danisma-ogrenci-danismanligi-randevual1-gaziantep\" width=\"298\" height=\"95\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bo\u015fanan ailelere \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli uyar\u0131lar yapan psikolog ve pedagoglar, \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 \u00f6zellikle psikolojik yak\u0131nl\u0131k g\u00f6sterilmesi gerekti\u011finin alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7iziyorlar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3351,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,145],"tags":[1226,283,284,172,189,285,8,286],"class_list":["post-3350","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","category-psikoloji","tag-bosanan-aileler-cocuklarini-ihmal-etmemeli","tag-istanbul-aile-danismani","tag-izmir-aile-danismani","tag-online-aile-danismani","tag-online-evlilik-danismani","tag-online-psikolojik-danismanlik","tag-sehitkamil-aile-danismanim","tag-sorunlu-evlilikler"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3350","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3350"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3350\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8311,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3350\/revisions\/8311"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3350"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3350"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3350"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}