{"id":3409,"date":"2016-09-09T02:03:27","date_gmt":"2016-09-08T23:03:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=3409"},"modified":"2016-09-09T02:03:27","modified_gmt":"2016-09-08T23:03:27","slug":"aile-ici-toplantilar-iletisimi-kuvvetlendirir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/3409\/aile-ici-toplantilar-iletisimi-kuvvetlendirir\/","title":{"rendered":"Aile i\u00e7i toplant\u0131lar ileti\u015fimi kuvvetlendirir"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u00c7o\u011fu ebeveynin gerek g\u00f6rmedi\u011fi ve dikkate almad\u0131\u011f\u0131 aile i\u00e7i isti\u015fare toplant\u0131lar\u0131, asl\u0131nda i\u00e7inden \u00e7\u0131k\u0131lmaz olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcnen bir\u00e7ok s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcne olumlu katk\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131yor. Aile i\u00e7i problemler etrafl\u0131ca konu\u015fuluyor, herkesin fikri ve bilgisi dahilinde ortak bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcme kavu\u015fturuluyor.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Peki nedir aile i\u00e7i isti\u015fare ve nas\u0131l yap\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r?<\/strong><\/p>\n

* Aile i\u00e7i isti\u015fare, aile olman\u0131n en \u00f6nemli \u00f6zelli\u011fidir. 7 ya\u015f \u00fcst\u00fc t\u00fcm aile fertlerinin sorunlar\u0131n\u0131 dile getirebildi\u011fi, s\u00f6z hakk\u0131 tan\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131, sorunlar\u0131n fikir al\u0131\u015f-veri\u015fiyle adil bir \u015fekilde \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcme kavu\u015fturuldu\u011fu bir toplant\u0131 ortam\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

* Aile i\u00e7i toplant\u0131n\u0131n belli bir amac\u0131 ve kurallar\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ama\u00e7s\u0131zca ve geli\u015fig\u00fczel yap\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

* Toplant\u0131lar, sabit bir zaman diliminde yap\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Haftada bir kez olmas\u0131na dikkat edilmelidir.<\/p>\n

* Toplant\u0131\u00a0ortam\u0131nda ailenin her bireyine s\u00f6z hakk\u0131 tan\u0131nmal\u0131, herkesin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerine \u00f6nem verilmelidir. Meseleler sayg\u0131 \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde, kavga etmeden, herkesin fikri al\u0131narak \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmelidir.<\/p>\n

* Toplant\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n kurallara uyulmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayan bir y\u00f6neticisi de olmal\u0131 ve bu i\u015f i\u00e7in m\u00fcmk\u00fcnse \u201cbaba\u201d g\u00f6revlendirilmelidir. Baban\u0131n oldu\u011fu bir ortamda bu g\u00f6rev bir ba\u015fkas\u0131na verilmemelidir.<\/p>\n

* Toplant\u0131lara 7 ya\u015f\u0131ndan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar kat\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Toplant\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n duygusal geli\u015fimlerine b\u00fcy\u00fck bir katk\u0131 sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in 7 ya\u015f\u0131ndan itibaren bu toplant\u0131lara kat\u0131lma hakk\u0131na sahip olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Toplant\u0131ya ilk defa kat\u0131lacak \u00e7ocuk ise \u00f6zel bir \u015fekilde toplant\u0131\u00a0masas\u0131na davet edilmeli, bu \u015fekilde \u00e7ocu\u011fa yeni bir stat\u00fc kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131 hissettirilmelidir.<\/p>\n

* Toplant\u0131da kararlar oy birli\u011fi ile al\u0131nmal\u0131, oylar\u0131n e\u015fit oldu\u011fu durumda ise toplant\u0131ya ba\u015fkanl\u0131k eden baban\u0131n oyu, 2 oy yerine say\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklar 7 ya\u015f\u0131ndan itibaren toplant\u0131lara kat\u0131lma hakk\u0131na sahip olsalar bile, karar mekanizmalar\u0131n\u0131n geli\u015fimi hen\u00fcz tamamlanmayaca\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in 12 ya\u015f\u0131ndan \u00f6nce oy kullanma hakk\u0131na sahip olamazlar. Al\u0131nan kararlar\u0131n not edilmesi ve kesinlikle uygulanmas\u0131 gerekmektedir. B\u00f6ylelikle \u00e7ocuklar ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n haklar\u0131na ve fikirlerine sayg\u0131 duymay\u0131, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerini \u00f6nemsemeyi \u00f6\u011frenirler.<\/p>\n

* Toplant\u0131, sorunlar\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm merkezi olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclmelidir. Ayak\u00fcst\u00fc al\u0131nan kararlar\u0131n aksine, toplant\u0131\u00a0masas\u0131nda al\u0131nan kararlar\u0131n yapt\u0131r\u0131m\u0131 daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcd\u00fcr. Sorunlar\u0131n t\u00fcm detaylar\u0131yla konu\u015fulabilmesine imk\u00e2n sa\u011fland\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lmalar da ortadan kalkacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

* Toplant\u0131da, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n stat\u00fc kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerdir. Kendisine s\u00f6z hakk\u0131 tan\u0131nan \u00e7ocuk, ailesi taraf\u0131ndan de\u011fer g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc hisseder. E\u011fer \u00e7ocuklara hak etti\u011fi zamanda, hak etti\u011fi de\u011fer ve stat\u00fc verilmezse \u00e7ocuklar bu de\u011ferleri d\u0131\u015far\u0131da arama ba\u015flarlar.<\/p>\n

* Toplant\u0131\u00a0masas\u0131nda kavga, tart\u0131\u015fma ya da huzursuzluklar ya\u015fansa bile toplant\u0131lar\u00a0sab\u0131rla devam edilmelidir. B\u00f6ylece \u00e7ocuklar, sorunlar\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmesinde nas\u0131l bir yol izlendi\u011fini tecr\u00fcbe etmi\u015f olurlar ve sorun \u00e7\u00f6zme kabiliyetleri geli\u015fir.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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