{"id":3425,"date":"2016-09-09T04:19:50","date_gmt":"2016-09-09T01:19:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=3425"},"modified":"2016-09-09T04:19:50","modified_gmt":"2016-09-09T01:19:50","slug":"iste-cocuklara-soz-gecirmenin-puf-noktalari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/3425\/iste-cocuklara-soz-gecirmenin-puf-noktalari\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130\u015fte \u00e7ocuklara s\u00f6z ge\u00e7irmenin p\u00fcf noktalar\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u201cANNE BABALIK \u0130\u00c7\u0130N E\u011e\u0130T\u0130M ALMIYORUZ\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Anne ve babalar\u0131n meslek sahibi olabilmek i\u00e7in y\u0131llarca \u00e7abalay\u0131p e\u011fitim al\u0131yorlar, ebeveyn olmak i\u00e7in ise hi\u00e7bir e\u011fitim al\u0131nm\u0131yor daha \u00e7ok kulaktan duyma veya anne babadan g\u00f6rd\u00fckleri kadar. Bir makineyi ya da i\u015fi bozunca onu tamir etme \u015fans\u0131m\u0131z oluyor. Ancak bir insan\u0131 bozdu\u011fumuzda onu kolay kolay tamir edemiyoruz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cDO\u011eRU DAVRAN, YAPTIRIM UYGULA\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Annelerin, babalar\u0131n ve \u00f6\u011fretmenlerin \u00e7ocuklara s\u00fcrekli nasihat etmekle do\u011fru davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 uygulayam\u0131yorlar. \u00c7ocuklarda g\u00f6rsel zeka \u00f6n plandad\u0131r. Bu nedenle anne ve babalar\u0131n do\u011fru davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 yapmalar\u0131 gerekiyor. \u00c7ocuklar anne ve babalar\u0131n\u0131n aynas\u0131 gibidir. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131nda davran\u0131\u015f bozuklu\u011fu olan anne ve babalar hatay\u0131 kendilerinde aramal\u0131.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201c\u00c7OCU\u011eA CEZA YER\u0130NE MOLA VER\u0130N\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmede ceza vermek yerine anne ve baban\u0131n sinirlenmeden \u00e7ocu\u011fa davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n sonucunu se\u00e7tirmesi gerekiyor. Karde\u015fiyle s\u00fcrekli kavga eden ve karde\u015fine vuran bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa siz bir m\u00fcddet mola uygulamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Karde\u015finden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131p ma\u011fdur olan karde\u015fle ilgilenmelisiniz. Tabi\u00ee ki sinirlenmeden ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131p \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmadan bunu yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z ki \u00e7ocuk ceza de\u011fil bir mola oldu\u011funu anlas\u0131n. S\u00fcre doldu\u011funda da \u00e7ocu\u011fa yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu tekrar anlatmaya gerek yok. Zaten o \u00e7ocuk o molayla yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cBASKI VE DAYATMA YAPMA\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Anne ve babalar\u0131n yemek yeme, ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma gibi konularda \u00e7ocuklara bask\u0131 ve dayatma yapmalar\u0131 ya da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcstlenmeleri, \u00e7ocu\u011fa tek ba\u015f\u0131na karar verme ve kendi sorumlulu\u011funu alma \u015fans\u0131n\u0131 engellemektedir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Okan Bal<br \/>\nUzman Psikolojik Dan\u0131\u015fman ve Aile Terapisti<\/p>\n<p>Sorunlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Daha Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc \u0130\u00e7in<br \/>\n\u201cOnline Terapi\u201d Randevusu Alabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/randevu-al\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3385\" src=\"http:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.okanbal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/psikolojik-danisma-ogrenci-danismanligi-randevual1-gaziantep.png?resize=298%2C95\" alt=\"onlineterapim-randevual\" width=\"298\" height=\"95\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cANNE BABALIK \u0130\u00c7\u0130N E\u011e\u0130T\u0130M ALMIYORUZ\u201d Anne ve babalar\u0131n meslek sahibi olabilmek i\u00e7in y\u0131llarca \u00e7abalay\u0131p e\u011fitim al\u0131yorlar, ebeveyn olmak i\u00e7in ise&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3426,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,145],"tags":[310,122,173,261,182],"class_list":["post-3425","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","category-psikoloji","tag-anne-baba-tutumu","tag-cocuk-egitimi","tag-online-aile-danismanligi","tag-online-psikolojik-danisma","tag-online-terapi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3425","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3425"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3425\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3425"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3425"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3425"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}