{"id":3751,"date":"2016-10-11T01:29:13","date_gmt":"2016-10-10T22:29:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=3751"},"modified":"2016-10-11T01:29:13","modified_gmt":"2016-10-10T22:29:13","slug":"bir-gun-gelir-o-cok-sevdigin-insan-cekip-gidebilir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/3751\/bir-gun-gelir-o-cok-sevdigin-insan-cekip-gidebilir\/","title":{"rendered":"Bir g\u00fcn gelir o \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fin insan \u00e7ekip gidebilir"},"content":{"rendered":"

Bir g\u00fcn ans\u0131z\u0131n \u0130nand\u0131\u011f\u0131n, de\u011fer verdi\u011fin,\u00e7ok sevdi\u011fin insan \u00e7ekip gider mi ? Cevab\u0131: tabiki evet. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc;\u015fu hayatta hi\u00e7 bir \u015feyin garantisi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi a\u015fk\u0131n, sevginin de garantisi yoktur.<\/p>\n

Bir g\u00fcn \u00f6l\u00fcms\u00fcz a\u015fk\u0131n\u0131z bitebilir, \u00e7ok sevdi\u011finiz insan \u00e7ekip gidebilir,ya da sizin a\u015fk\u0131n\u0131z<\/strong> bitebilir. Hayat\u0131m\u0131zdaki t\u00fcm a\u015fklar\u0131n sevginin \u00a0filmlerdeki gibi mutlu sorunsuz oldu\u011funu san\u0131yoruz \u00f6yle bir d\u00fcnya \u00a0yok malesef. T\u00fcm ili\u015fkiler<\/strong> biter demiyorum.. Her \u015fey\u00a0de\u011fi\u015febilir.<\/p>\n

Y\u0131llarca s\u00fcren ili\u015fkiler var.<\/h3>\n

\u0130li\u015fkilerimizi nas\u0131l s\u00fcrd\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde \u00f6nemli. ili\u015fkimizde ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 de\u011fil ba\u011fl\u0131 olmal\u0131y\u0131z. Ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir duygu de\u011fildir ili\u015fkiye zarar veren y\u0131prat\u0131c\u0131 bir duygudur. \u0130li\u015fkilerinizde garantici olarak kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyin.Garanti g\u00f6r\u00fcnen hi\u00e7 bir \u015feyin cazibesi ve de\u011feri \u00a0yoktur. S\u00f6ylemek istedi\u011fim bir taktik bir uygulama de\u011fildir. Kendinizi ne kadar \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu unutmamakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bir g\u00fcn gelir o \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fin insan \u00e7ekip gidebilir.<\/h4>\n

Kendinizi bo\u015f ,anlams\u0131z hissedersiniz. Sanki t\u00fcm d\u00fcnyan\u0131z y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. T\u00fcm teselli s\u00f6zc\u00fckleri bo\u015f,manas\u0131z gelir.A\u015fka, sevgiye inanc\u0131n\u0131z kaybolur gibi. \u0130lk zamanlar b\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek b\u00f6yle hissetmek \u00e7ok normal. Ama bu duygular ge\u00e7er biter, hi\u00e7biri kal\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fildir. Siz \u00f6nce ac\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131n. Duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bast\u0131rmay\u0131n. A\u011flaman\u0131z gelirse a\u011flay\u0131n ba\u011f\u0131rman\u0131z gerekirse ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131n.<\/p>\n

Biraz zaman ge\u00e7sin g\u00fcne\u015f yine do\u011facakt\u0131r.<\/h4>\n

Hem a\u015fk hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n\u00a0\u00f6nemli bir par\u00e7as\u0131 merkezi olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. A\u015fk\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sevginizi g\u00f6sterdiyseniz\u00a0\u00a0i\u00e7iniz rahat olsun bu cesareti g\u00f6sterdi\u011finiz i\u00e7in. B\u0131rak\u0131n sizinle gelmek isteyen yola devam etsin istemeyende \u0131srar etmeyin tercih etmiyorsa devam etmeyi kendisi bilir kaybedecek bir \u015fey yoktur asl\u0131nda .<\/p>\n

A\u015fkta m\u00fccadele<\/strong> denen kavrama hi\u00e7 inanamam. Duygular varsa ifade edilir.\u00a0\u00a0Ka\u00e7an kovalan\u0131r mant\u0131\u011f\u0131 kadar sa\u00e7ma bir \u015fey yoktur. Zaten bu a\u015fk de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n

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Bir g\u00fcn ans\u0131z\u0131n \u0130nand\u0131\u011f\u0131n, de\u011fer verdi\u011fin,\u00e7ok sevdi\u011fin insan \u00e7ekip gider mi ? Cevab\u0131: tabiki evet. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc;\u015fu hayatta hi\u00e7 bir \u015feyin...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3752,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,145],"tags":[367,368,369,52,366,182,370,371,372],"class_list":["post-3751","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","category-psikoloji","tag-ask-acisi-icin","tag-ask-terapi","tag-askta-ayrilik","tag-evlilik-terapisi","tag-gaziantep-iliski-terapisi","tag-online-terapi","tag-sevgili-terk-etmesi","tag-terapi","tag-terk-edilmek"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3751","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3751"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3751\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3751"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3751"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3751"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}