{"id":3828,"date":"2016-10-17T01:19:16","date_gmt":"2016-10-16T22:19:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=3828"},"modified":"2016-10-17T01:19:16","modified_gmt":"2016-10-16T22:19:16","slug":"evlenmeden-once-konusulmasi-gereken-konular","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/3828\/evlenmeden-once-konusulmasi-gereken-konular\/","title":{"rendered":"Evlenmeden \u00f6nce konu\u015fulmas\u0131 gereken konular"},"content":{"rendered":"<p id=\"haber\">1- Gelir ve giderinizle ilgili detayl\u0131 bir b\u00fct\u00e7e haz\u0131rlay\u0131n. En \u00f6nemli sorulardan birini en ba\u015fta sorun \u201cNas\u0131l bir b\u00fct\u00e7eye sahip olaca\u011f\u0131z?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>2- B\u00fct\u00e7enizin daha en ba\u015ftan sars\u0131lmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in i\u015f b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc yap\u0131n. Periyodik harcamalarda \u201cKim, nereye, hangi harcamay\u0131 yapacak?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>3- K\u0131yafetler, tatiller, haftal\u0131k aktiviteler\u2026 Ayl\u0131k ve y\u0131ll\u0131k \u015feklinde hesaplay\u0131n, \u201cNereye, ne kadar harcayaca\u011f\u0131z?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>4- Bir ayda, bir y\u0131lda, 5 y\u0131lda ne kadar kazanm\u0131\u015f olacaks\u0131n\u0131z &#8220;Ne kadar birikim yapabiliriz?&#8221;<br \/>\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc evlenince g\u00f6receksiniz ki, para \u00f6nemli de\u011fil diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrken, bir bakm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131z her\u015fey oluvermi\u015f. Planl\u0131 olman\u0131n zarar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmezsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>5- Ev i\u015fleri konusunda organize olun. \u0130kiniz de \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131y\u0131yorsan\u0131z kim ne ile ilgilenecek i\u015f b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc yap\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>6- \u0130\u015ften \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lma, ayr\u0131lma ve sonras\u0131nda kolayca i\u015f bulamama ya da \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak istememe gibi durumlarda \u201cBirimizden biri \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131yorken nas\u0131l bir durumla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r\u0131z, her \u015fey yolunda gider mi?\u201d Her ihtimali ba\u015ftan g\u00f6r\u00fcn.<\/p>\n<p>7- Yak\u0131n arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zdan pe\u015f pe\u015fe gelen davetler, ard\u0131 arkas\u0131 kesilmeyen do\u011fum g\u00fcn\u00fc kutlamalar\u0131, b\u00fct\u00e7enizi a\u015fan tatil \u00f6nerileri\u2026 \u201cBu etkinlikler beni ne kadar ilgilendiriyor?\u201d sorusunu cevaplay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>8- \u201cCinsel ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131zdaki s\u0131kl\u0131k kavram\u0131 ikimiz i\u00e7inde ayn\u0131 olacak m\u0131?\u201d sorusu. Az, \u00e7ok\u2026 Gecede bir, haftada bir, ayda bir, y\u0131lda bir&#8230;?<\/p>\n<p>9- \u201cBirlikte ne yiyece\u011fiz?\u201d Mutfak, her evlilikte oldu\u011fu gibi sizinkinde de \u00f6nemli. Hangi eti yiyor, hangisini yemiyorsunuz? Hangi sebzelerden nefret ediyor, hangilerini \u00e7ok seviyorsunuz? Mutfak al\u0131\u015fveri\u015finizi kim, neye g\u00f6re yap\u0131yor?<\/p>\n<p>10- \u201cAl\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z rahats\u0131z edecek mi?\u201d Biriniz sigara ya da alkol kullan\u0131yor, di\u011feriniz kullanm\u0131yorsa, bu durum sorun yaratacak m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>11- Ailelerinize hangi uzakl\u0131kta oturacaks\u0131n\u0131z? &#8220;Ailelerimizi hangi s\u0131kl\u0131kta ziyaret edece\u011fiz?&#8221; Bunun plan\u0131n\u0131 da yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>12- \u00c7ocuk sahibi olmak istiyor muyuz? \u00d6yleyse, ne zaman? Ka\u00e7 \u00e7ocuk?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>13- \u201c\u00c7ocuk sahibi olmak, \u015fimdiki ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ne kadar de\u011fi\u015ftirecek?\u201d sorusunu yan\u0131tlay\u0131n ki, b\u00fcy\u00fck bir s\u00fcrprizle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmay\u0131n. \u0130\u015f ve ev sorumluluklar\u0131 yan\u0131nda, \u00e7ocu\u011funuza ne kadar zaman ay\u0131rabileceksiniz? Ayn\u0131 zamanda ev idaresiyle ilgili plan\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 tekrar programlamak zorunda kalacaks\u0131n\u0131z, unutmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Okan Bal<br \/>\nUzman Psikolojik Dan\u0131\u015fman ve Aile Terapisti<\/p>\n<p>Sorunlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Daha Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc \u0130\u00e7in<br \/>\n\u201cOnline Terapi\u201d Randevusu Alabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/randevu-al\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3385\" src=\"http:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.okanbal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/psikolojik-danisma-ogrenci-danismanligi-randevual1-gaziantep.png?resize=298%2C95\" alt=\"onlineterapim-randevual\" width=\"298\" height=\"95\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1- Gelir ve giderinizle ilgili detayl\u0131 bir b\u00fct\u00e7e haz\u0131rlay\u0131n. En \u00f6nemli sorulardan birini en ba\u015fta sorun \u201cNas\u0131l bir b\u00fct\u00e7eye sahip&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3829,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,145],"tags":[27,395,396,52,182,156],"class_list":["post-3828","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","category-psikoloji","tag-aile-danismanligi","tag-evlenmeden-once-konusulmasi-gereken-konular","tag-evlenmeden-once-ne-yapilir","tag-evlilik-terapisi","tag-online-terapi","tag-sehitkamil-evlilik-terapisi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3828","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3828"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3828\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3828"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3828"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3828"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}