\u201cBiri \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za y\u0131llardan beri verdi\u011finiz vitaminlerin asl\u0131nda onlar\u0131 zehirledi\u011fini s\u00f6ylese, ne yapard\u0131n\u0131z? \u00dcrkerdiniz de\u011fil mi? \u0130\u015fte ben de, kendimizi bildik bileli okudu\u011fumuz, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, \u00e7izgi filmlerini izletti\u011fimiz bir\u00e7ok kl\u00e2sik masal ve romanlardaki ki\u015fili\u011fi bozan mesajlar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce \u00fcrkt\u00fcm.\u201d \u00a0\u00c7ocuk kitaplar\u0131n\u0131n, sosyal, ahlak\u00ee ve bireysel de\u011ferlerle donat\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekmektedir. Masal kahramanlar\u0131n\u0131n, zararl\u0131 al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klara kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fa \u00f6rnek olmas\u0131 gerekir.<\/p>\n
Anne-babalar; Ali Baba ve K\u0131rk Haramiler, Alaaddin\u2019in Sihirli L\u00e2mbas\u0131, \u00c7izmeli Kedi, Bremen M\u0131z\u0131kac\u0131lar\u0131, K\u00fcl Kedisi, Uyuyan G\u00fczel, Pamuk Prenses, Alt\u0131n Elma A\u011fac\u0131, Fareli K\u00f6y\u00fcn Kavalc\u0131s\u0131, Karga ile Tilki,\u00a0 Robin Hood, Sherlock Holmes\u00a0 gibi masallarla b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr \u00e7ocu\u011funu. Bu masallar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklara k\u00f6t\u00fc al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131 do\u011fru gibi sunuyor.<\/p>\n
Birka\u00e7 masaldaki yanl\u0131\u015f rol modellere bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u201cMesela Ali Baba ve K\u0131rk Haramiler. Ali Baba rastlant\u0131yla, K\u0131rk Haramilerin sihirli s\u00f6zc\u00fcklerini duyar.\u00a0 \u2018A\u00e7\u0131l susam, a\u00e7\u0131l!\u2019 deyip haramilerin ma\u011faras\u0131na girer. H\u0131rs\u0131zlar\u0131n hazinesini azar azar \u00e7al\u0131p kullanmaya ba\u015flar.\u00a0 Haramiler bunu fark eder ve Ali Baba\u2019n\u0131n pe\u015fine d\u00fc\u015fer. Ailenin evlatl\u0131\u011f\u0131 Meryem, \u00f6nce k\u0131rk haramiyi \u00fczerlerine k\u0131zg\u0131n ya\u011f d\u00f6kerek \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcr. Ard\u0131ndan da \u00f6\u00e7 almaya gelen haramilerin reisini… Ali Baba, Meryem\u2019i o\u011fluyla evlendirir. Sonra da \u00f6m\u00fcrlerinin sonuna dek zengin – mesut ya\u015farlar. Burada verilen mesaj \u015fudur: E\u011fer soyabilece\u011finiz zengin bir h\u0131rs\u0131z bulabilirseniz, hi\u00e7 durmay\u0131n, soyun! Hatta pe\u015finize d\u00fc\u015fecek olurlarsa, onlar\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcrmenizde bile sak\u0131nca yoktur. Hem \u00e7izgi film hem de sinema filmi olarak bir\u00e7ok defa televizyonlarda yay\u0131nlanan Alaaddin\u2019in Sihirli L\u00e2mbas\u0131\u2019nda ise sihirbaz\u0131n biri, gizemli ma\u011faradaki sihirli l\u00e2mbas\u0131n\u0131 almak i\u00e7in Alaaddin\u2019i kand\u0131r\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk son anda adam\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc amac\u0131n\u0131 fark eder. K\u00f6t\u00fc kalpli sihirbaza ait sihirli l\u00e2mban\u0131n, sihirli y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ve hazinenin sahibi olur. Sultan\u0131n k\u0131z\u0131yla evlenir. Sihirbaz\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcp mesut bahtiyar bir \u00f6m\u00fcr ya\u015far. Mesaj ayn\u0131d\u0131r: Soyabilece\u011finiz zengin h\u0131rs\u0131zlar\u0131 soyun, pe\u015finize d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp size zarar vermeye kalkarsa \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcn.<\/p>\n
\u00c7OCUK, H\u0130K\u00c2YEDE KEND\u0130 MANEV\u0130 DE\u011eERLER\u0130N\u0130 BULMALI<\/strong><\/p>\n Bir \u00e7ocuk kitab\u0131 hangi ya\u015f ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015fsa; o \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n psikolojik ve zihinsel geli\u015fimine uygun \u00f6zellikler ta\u015f\u0131mal\u0131, o ya\u015fa uygun bir dil kullan\u0131lmal\u0131. \u00c7ocuk elindeki kitab\u0131 ya\u015farcas\u0131na okurken kendini; yurdunda, kentinde, insanlar\u0131n i\u00e7inde bulabilmeli, kendi zenginliklerini g\u00f6rebilmeli, sorunlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcp bunlarla y\u00fczle\u015febilmeli. \u00c7ocuk kitaplar\u0131 sosyal, ahlak\u00ee ve bireysel de\u011ferlerle, davran\u0131\u015f kal\u0131plar\u0131yla donat\u0131lmal\u0131. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z daima iyinin, do\u011frunun, hakl\u0131n\u0131n, zay\u0131f\u0131n yan\u0131nda olmal\u0131; k\u00f6t\u00fcn\u00fcn ve haks\u0131z\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda durmal\u0131. Madd\u00ee, manev\u00ee t\u00fcm k\u00fclt\u00fcrel de\u011ferlerimizin bilincinde olmal\u0131, onlar\u0131 koruyup kollamal\u0131, bunlar\u0131 gelecek ku\u015faklara aktarman\u0131n sorumlulu\u011funu ta\u015f\u0131mal\u0131. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir beden ve zihin geli\u015fimi i\u00e7in spora y\u00f6nelmeli; zararl\u0131 al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klardan uzak durmal\u0131.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n <\/p>\n Okan Bal Sorunlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Daha Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc \u0130\u00e7in
\nUzman Psikolojik Dan\u0131\u015fman ve Aile Terapisti<\/p>\n
\n\u201cOnline Terapi\u201d Randevusu Alabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n
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