{"id":4087,"date":"2016-11-12T20:26:02","date_gmt":"2016-11-12T18:26:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=4087"},"modified":"2016-11-12T20:26:02","modified_gmt":"2016-11-12T18:26:02","slug":"kadinlarin-ayrilik-acisi-daha-kisa-suruyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/4087\/kadinlarin-ayrilik-acisi-daha-kisa-suruyor\/","title":{"rendered":"Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n ayr\u0131l\u0131k ac\u0131s\u0131 daha k\u0131sa s\u00fcr\u00fcyor"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>University College London ve Binghamton University\u2019nin\u00a0ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131na g\u00f6re ayr\u0131l\u0131k ac\u0131s\u0131 kad\u0131nlarda erkeklere g\u00f6re daha k\u0131sa s\u00fcr\u00fcyor. Ancak kad\u0131nlar bu ac\u0131y\u0131 erkeklere nazaran daha \u015fiddetli ya\u015f\u0131yor.<\/h2>\n<p>D\u00fcnyan\u0131n \u00e7e\u015fitli yerlerinden 6000 insan \u00fczerinde ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirilen \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmada, ara\u015ft\u0131rmac\u0131lar ayr\u0131l\u0131k ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmeyi ama\u00e7lam\u0131\u015f. Sonu\u00e7lara g\u00f6re kad\u0131nlar ayr\u0131l\u0131k ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 duygusal oldu\u011fu kadar fiziksel olarak da tecr\u00fcbe ediyor. Dahas\u0131, bu ac\u0131y\u0131 erkeklere k\u0131yasla daha \u015fiddetli hissediyorlar. Fiziksel ac\u0131 ile duygusal ac\u0131n\u0131n, beynin ayn\u0131 b\u00f6lgesinin uyar\u0131lmas\u0131 sonucu meydana geldi\u011fini de hat\u0131rlatal\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Bu somut ac\u0131n\u0131n bu denli g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olmas\u0131n\u0131n nedeni, ili\u015fkinin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczden \u00e7ok daha b\u00fcy\u00fck etkilerinin (biyolojik etkiler de dahil) olmas\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc <em><strong>kad\u0131nlar<\/strong><\/em>, ili\u015fkilerine erkeklerden \u00e7ok daha fazla emek veriyor. Binghamton University\u2019den Craig Morris bu durumu \u015f\u00f6yle a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131yor: \u201c<strong>Romantik<\/strong> bir\u00a0<strong>ili\u015fki<\/strong>, kad\u0131n\u0131 9 ayl\u0131k bir hamileli\u011fe ve sonras\u0131nda gelen ve y\u0131llar s\u00fcren bir emzirme s\u00fcrecine itebilir. Fakat, erkekler ili\u015fkiden dakikalar sonra kay\u0131plara kar\u0131\u015fabilir ve biyolojik olarak bir etki hissetmezler\u201d. Kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in b\u00f6yle bir durumda partnerin kaybedilmesi demek, potansiyel olarak gelece\u011fin de kaybedilmesi anlam\u0131na gelebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Ara\u015ft\u0131rman\u0131n sonu\u00e7lar\u0131na g\u00f6re her ne kadar kad\u0131nlar ayr\u0131l\u0131ktan daha olumsuz ve \u015fiddetli etkilenseler de, erkeklerin iyile\u015fme s\u00fcreci \u00e7ok daha uzun s\u00fcr\u00fcyor. Hatta ara\u015ft\u0131rma sonucunda baz\u0131 erkeklerin ayr\u0131l\u0131k sonras\u0131nda asla \u201ceskisi gibi\u201d olamad\u0131klar\u0131 g\u00f6zlemlenmi\u015f. <strong>Erkekler<\/strong> uzun vadede daha derinden etkileniyor ve hatta baz\u0131 durumlarda kayb\u0131n asla telafi edilemeyece\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesine kap\u0131labiliyorlar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>University College London ve Binghamton University\u2019nin\u00a0ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131na g\u00f6re ayr\u0131l\u0131k ac\u0131s\u0131 kad\u0131nlarda erkeklere g\u00f6re daha k\u0131sa s\u00fcr\u00fcyor. Ancak kad\u0131nlar bu ac\u0131y\u0131 erkeklere&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4088,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,145],"tags":[464,465,23,466,467,116],"class_list":["post-4087","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","category-psikoloji","tag-ayrilik-acisi","tag-ayrilik-duygusu","tag-evlilik-danismani","tag-iliski-danismani","tag-kadinlarin-ayrilik-acisi-daha-kisa-suruyor","tag-psikolojik-danisma"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4087","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4087"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4087\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4087"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4087"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4087"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}