{"id":4206,"date":"2016-11-26T01:47:17","date_gmt":"2016-11-25T23:47:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=4206"},"modified":"2016-11-26T01:47:17","modified_gmt":"2016-11-25T23:47:17","slug":"aile-ici-siddetin-cocuga-etkileri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/4206\/aile-ici-siddetin-cocuga-etkileri\/","title":{"rendered":"Aile \u0130\u00e7i \u015eiddetin \u00c7ocu\u011fa Etkileri"},"content":{"rendered":"

Aile i\u00e7i \u015fiddet g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde hala \u00e7ok \u00e7e\u015fitli \u015fekillerde uygulanmaya devam etmektedir. Genellikle aile reisinin evin han\u0131m\u0131na veya \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na uygulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 fiziksel \u015fiddet, \u00e7ocuk \u00fczerinde telafisi imkans\u0131z izler b\u0131rakabiliyor. Ailelerin bu konuyu gizlemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsalar bile \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6zlerinden ka\u00e7mayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmeleri gerekiyor.<\/p>\n

\u00c7o\u011fu zaman ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131p \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmalar\u0131 ve y\u00fcksek sesli tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 duyan \u00e7ocuklar olaydan haberi yokmu\u015f gibi davran\u0131p i\u00e7ine kapan\u0131yor. Bunun yan\u0131 s\u0131ra e\u011fer anne \u015fiddet g\u00f6r\u00fcyor ve v\u00fccudunda bir \u00a0tak\u0131m izler kal\u0131yorsa \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in daha a\u011f\u0131r sonu\u00e7lar verebiliyor. B\u00f6yle durumlar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda bile ruhsal travma ge\u00e7iren \u00e7ocuklar okulda ve evde \u00fcrkek, i\u00e7e kapan\u0131k tav\u0131rlar sergiliyor.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocu\u011fa direk olarak uygulanan \u015fiddet ise ki\u015fili\u011fi \u00fczerinde d\u00f6n\u00fclmez etkiler b\u0131rak\u0131yor. Hayat\u0131 \u015fiddet \u00fczerine kurulan \u00e7ocuk en ufak \u015feyleri bile kavga ile elde etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken s\u0131k s\u0131k \u015fiddete ba\u015fvurmaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

T\u00fcm bunlar\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra \u00e7ocuklarda ileri ki d\u00f6nemlerde g\u00f6r\u00fclecek farkl\u0131 hastal\u0131klar belirebiliyor. \u00c7ocukken kar\u0131n a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131, kabus g\u00f6rme , uykuya dalamama, kayg\u0131, korku ve depresyon olarak \u015fekillenen bozukluklar b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e karaci\u011fer, kalp ve romatizmal hastal\u0131klar\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra a\u011f\u0131r psikolojik travmalar \u015feklinde ilerliyor.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n ileri ki ya\u015flarda sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkiler kuramama ve b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e daha ciddi sorunlarla ba\u015f ba\u015fa kalmalar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayan aile i\u00e7i \u015fiddetin en sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u015fekilde sonland\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7ocuk ile birlikte bir psikolog yard\u0131m\u0131yla \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmesi gerekiyor. \u00c7ocuk ilerde \u015fiddet g\u00f6steren ki\u015fiyi taklit eden davran\u0131\u015flar i\u00e7erisine girip hayat\u0131n\u0131 farkl\u0131 y\u00f6nlendirebilece\u011fi i\u00e7in do\u011fal olarak sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ruh hali olu\u015fmayacakt\u0131r. M\u00fcmk\u00fcn olan en k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede bir aile terapisi gerekmektedir. Aksi durumlarda \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fu yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131n fark\u0131na varamayacak, \u00fcstesinden gelemeyecek ve hayattan kopacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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