Ni\u015fanl\u0131l\u0131k, evlilik yolunda at\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir ad\u0131md\u0131r ve \u00e7o\u011fu \u00e7ift o a\u015famaya gelene kadar bir\u00e7ok zorluk \u00e7eker. Tam t\u00fcm zorluklar a\u015f\u0131ld\u0131 derken, o y\u00fcz\u00fcklerin tak\u0131lmas\u0131yla \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 bir atmosfer olu\u015fur. An\u0131nda k\u0131z taraf\u0131, erkek taraf\u0131 muhabbeti ba\u015flar ve sonras\u0131 tam bir karma\u015fad\u0131r. Her kafadan bir ses \u00e7\u0131kar; k\u0131z taraf\u0131 bunu yapacak, erkek taraf\u0131 \u015funu alacak…<\/p>\n
Pazarl\u0131k yap\u0131l\u0131r tarzdaki konu\u015fmalar\u0131n ard\u0131 arkas\u0131 kesilmez. Ve ne gariptir ki, bu arada evlenecek olan gen\u00e7lere ne istedikleri, ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fckleri sorulmaz. B\u00fcy\u00fckleri onlar i\u00e7in en iyisini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp, en do\u011fru karar\u0131 verirler. Gen\u00e7lere susmak ve al\u0131nan kararlar\u0131 kabullenmek d\u00fc\u015fer. \u0130ki taraf aras\u0131ndaki anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar, gen\u00e7leri \u00e7ok \u00fczer ve y\u0131prat\u0131r. Bazen olaylardan etkilenip, kendi aralar\u0131nda gereksiz tart\u0131\u015fmalar ya\u015farlar. Bu t\u00fcr durumlarda, ne yaz\u0131k ki gen\u00e7lerin en mutlu olmas\u0131 gereken g\u00fcnler, en sorunlu d\u00f6nemleri haline gelir.<\/p>\n
Elbette ki hi\u00e7bir aile evlad\u0131n\u0131n mutsuz olmas\u0131n\u0131 istemez, ama\u00e7 gen\u00e7lere yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmakt\u0131r. Burada niyet iyi olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen uygulama yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Aileler gen\u00e7lere fikir verebilir, yol g\u00f6sterebilir fakat onlar\u0131n ad\u0131na karar vermemeleri gerekir. Gelecekteki yuva iki ki\u015fi aras\u0131nda kurulaca\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in, kendileri hakk\u0131nda karar verme sorumlulu\u011fu da onlarda olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ni\u015fanl\u0131l\u0131k devresinde aileler her \u015feye m\u00fcdahale ederse, bu evlilik s\u0131ras\u0131nda da devam eder. Bu \u015fekilde sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir evlilik temeli at\u0131lamaz. Aileler bilmelidir ki; evlatlar\u0131 yuva kurmay\u0131 istedi\u011fine g\u00f6re bu sorumlulu\u011fu da alabilir. \u0130ki aile birbiriyle \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmaya girmek yerine, gen\u00e7lere ger\u00e7ek anlamda b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fck g\u00f6sterip destek olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ni\u015fanl\u0131l\u0131k, evlilik yolunda at\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir ad\u0131md\u0131r ve \u00e7o\u011fu \u00e7ift o a\u015famaya gelene kadar bir\u00e7ok zorluk \u00e7eker. Tam t\u00fcm zorluklar a\u015f\u0131ld\u0131...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4249,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,145],"tags":[23,52,466,407,489,490,491],"class_list":["post-4248","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","category-psikoloji","tag-evlilik-danismani","tag-evlilik-terapisi","tag-iliski-danismani","tag-iliski-terapisi","tag-nisanlilik-sorunlari","tag-nisanlilikta-aile-tutumlari","tag-nisanlilikta-iletisim"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4248","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4248"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4248\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4248"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4248"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4248"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}