{"id":4405,"date":"2016-12-14T20:48:35","date_gmt":"2016-12-14T18:48:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=4405"},"modified":"2016-12-14T20:48:35","modified_gmt":"2016-12-14T18:48:35","slug":"ikili-iliskilerin-dusmani-kiskanclik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/4405\/ikili-iliskilerin-dusmani-kiskanclik\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130kili \u0130li\u015fkilerin D\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, bir e\u015fyan\u0131n ya da bir ki\u015finin ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 derecede payla\u015famama ve ki\u015finin ya da e\u015fyan\u0131n sadece kendine ait oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesidir. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k bir\u00e7ok ki\u015fiyi etkisine alan ve hemen her insanda olan bir duygudur. \u00c7o\u011fu ki\u015fi bu k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duygusunu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck seviyede ya\u015farken baz\u0131 insanlarda a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 derecede k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duygusu olu\u015fmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zellikle ikili ili\u015fkilerin d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ili\u015fkilerin bitmesine dahi yol a\u00e7abilir. E\u015flerin ya da sevgililerin birbirini k\u0131skanmas\u0131, ili\u015fkinin k\u00f6t\u00fcye gitmesine yol a\u00e7abilir. A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k g\u00f6steren ki\u015filer, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakine g\u00fcvensizliklerini k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duygular\u0131 ile g\u00f6sterirler.<\/p>\n<p><strong>K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k neden ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar?<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ki\u015finin \u00e7ocukluk d\u00f6neminde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 baz\u0131 olaylar sonucu ortaya \u00e7\u0131kabilir.<\/li>\n<li>Aile i\u00e7inde ya\u015fanan herhangi sars\u0131c\u0131 bir olay ki\u015fide ileriki ya\u015flar\u0131nda bu sars\u0131c\u0131 olaydan dolay\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duygular\u0131na kap\u0131lmas\u0131na yol a\u00e7abilir.<\/li>\n<li>\u00d6zellikle \u00e7iftler aras\u0131nda olu\u015fan k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131kta terk edilme korkusu ki\u015filerin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki ki\u015fiye k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duygular\u0131 hissetmesine yol a\u00e7abilir.<\/li>\n<li>K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duygusu i\u00e7inde olan ki\u015fi kendisinin de\u011fersiz oldu\u011funu, her zaman kaybetme riski ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duygusu sergileyen ki\u015filer, karma\u015f\u0131k duygular i\u00e7indedir. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman bu durum ki\u015finin tehlikeli bir duruma d\u00fc\u015fmesine de sebep olabilir. \u00d6zellikle ikili ili\u015fkilerde k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k g\u00f6steren ki\u015fi, e\u015fini devaml\u0131 kontrol etmeye ba\u015flar. Ailesiyle, arkada\u015flar\u0131yla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesini engellemeye kadar i\u015fi g\u00f6t\u00fcrebilir. Bu durum ise e\u015flerin birbirinden uzakla\u015fmas\u0131na ve ili\u015fkinin sona ermesine kadar bile gidebilir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130kili ili\u015fkilerde ki\u015filerin hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u011flay\u0131c\u0131 bir tehlike yaratmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k tolere edilebilir. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman e\u015flerin birbirini k\u0131skanmas\u0131 \u00e7ok ileri gidilmedi\u011fi s\u00fcrece normal bile kar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131r. Ancak k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k tehlikeli boyutlara gelirse ki\u015filerin profesyonel yard\u0131m almas\u0131 \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k i\u00e7in neler yap\u0131labilir?<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaratacak sebepler ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmal\u0131 ve olumsuz duygular yok edilmelidir.<\/li>\n<li>Ki\u015filerin birbirine g\u00fcven duymas\u0131, yeniden eski g\u00fcvenin kazand\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekir.<\/li>\n<li>\u0130kili ili\u015fkilerde olu\u015fan k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k sorunlar\u0131 taraflar taraf\u0131ndan konu\u015fulmal\u0131 ve anla\u015fmaya var\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duygusunun tedavi edilebilmesi biraz da ki\u015fiye ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Ki\u015finin k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duygusunun oldu\u011funu kabul etmesi ve profesyonel yard\u0131m almas\u0131 \u00f6nemlidir. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duygusuna sahip ki\u015filer ge\u00e7mi\u015ften de gelen baz\u0131 problemleri g\u00fcn y\u00fcz\u00fcne \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131rlar. Bu problemler profesyonel yard\u0131m ile yok edilmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece ikili ili\u015fkilerde ya\u015fanacak k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duygusu ki\u015finin g\u00fcvenini tekrar kazanmas\u0131yla yok edilebilir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, bir e\u015fyan\u0131n ya da bir ki\u015finin ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 derecede payla\u015famama ve ki\u015finin ya da e\u015fyan\u0131n sadece kendine ait oldu\u011funu&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4406,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,145],"tags":[529,530,227,531,532,486,533,534],"class_list":["post-4405","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","category-psikoloji","tag-asiri-kiskanclik-nasil-yenilir","tag-erkek-arkadasim-cok-kiskanc-ne-yapmaliyim","tag-esler-arasi-kiskanclik","tag-karim-cok-kiskanc-ne-yapmaliyim","tag-kiskanc-erkekle-nasil-bas-edilir","tag-kiskanclik","tag-kocam-cok-kiskanc-ne-yapmaliyim","tag-sevgilim-cok-kiskanc-ne-yapmaliyim"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4405","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4405"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4405\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4405"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4405"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4405"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}