{"id":4441,"date":"2016-12-18T09:52:47","date_gmt":"2016-12-18T07:52:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=4441"},"modified":"2016-12-18T09:52:47","modified_gmt":"2016-12-18T07:52:47","slug":"evlilik-oncesi-endiselerinizi-bir-kenara-birakin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/4441\/evlilik-oncesi-endiselerinizi-bir-kenara-birakin\/","title":{"rendered":"Evlilik \u00d6ncesi Endi\u015felerinizi Bir Kenara B\u0131rak\u0131n!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Evlili\u011fi s\u00fcrd\u00fcrebilme endi\u015fesi, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn bitece\u011finin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmesi, al\u0131\u015f\u0131lan d\u00fczenden yeni bir d\u00fczene ge\u00e7ecek olma fikri ve sorumluluklar\u0131n artacak olmas\u0131 evlilik karar\u0131 alan \u00e7iftlerde g\u00f6r\u00fclen ola\u011fan stresin nedenleri aras\u0131nda yer al\u0131r<\/p>\n

Acaba do\u011fru insan m\u0131?
\n<\/strong>
\nEvlilik \u00f6ncesinde \u00e7iftler kendilerine, \u201cAcaba bu insan benim i\u00e7in do\u011fru ki\u015fi mi?\u201d \u201cHayat\u0131m\u0131 bu insanla ge\u00e7irebilir miyim?\u201d \u201cDaha iyisi var m\u0131d\u0131r?\u201d gibi sorular sorabilir. Bu t\u00fcr sorular\u0131n olu\u015fmas\u0131 normal ve ge\u00e7ici bir durumdur. \u0130ki farkl\u0131 hayat tarz\u0131n\u0131n bir evin i\u00e7inde birle\u015fecek olmas\u0131, haz\u0131rl\u0131k a\u015famas\u0131nda ailelerin fazla m\u00fcdahil olmas\u0131, haz\u0131rl\u0131k s\u00fcrecinin yo\u011fun ve karma\u015f\u0131k ge\u00e7mesi \u00f6zellikle gelin adaylar\u0131n\u0131n daha fazla stresli hissetmesine neden olur. Bu d\u00f6nemde her iki taraf i\u00e7in de evlilik konusunda karars\u0131zl\u0131k durumu da g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fanan yo\u011fun stresin \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7mek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2022<\/strong> \u00d6ncelikle bu durumun ge\u00e7ici ve keyifli bir olay i\u00e7in ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n bilincinde olun.<\/p>\n

\u2022<\/strong> Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te ne istedi\u011finize emin olun ve karar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmemeye \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterin.<\/p>\n

\u2022<\/strong> Evli arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zdan ya da ailelerden d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ve evlilik ile ilgili fikir ve yard\u0131m al\u0131n ancak kafan\u0131z\u0131n kar\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na izin vermeyin.<\/p>\n

\u2022<\/strong> Cinsellik dahil evlilik ile ilgili hissetti\u011finiz t\u00fcm korkular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 partnerinizle a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a konu\u015fun. \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcms\u00fcz hissetti\u011finiz durumlarda bir uzmandan yard\u0131m al\u0131n.<\/p>\n

\u2022<\/strong> Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te gev\u015femenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak aktiviteleri yapmay\u0131 ihmal etmeyin.<\/p>\n

\u2022<\/strong> Her ne olursa olsun ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yo\u011funlu\u011fu ve karma\u015fay\u0131 sevdi\u011finiz insanla hayat\u0131 payla\u015fmak i\u00e7in yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 unutmay\u0131n ve s\u00fcrecin keyfini \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131n.<\/p>\n

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Evlili\u011fi s\u00fcrd\u00fcrebilme endi\u015fesi, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn bitece\u011finin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmesi, al\u0131\u015f\u0131lan d\u00fczenden yeni bir d\u00fczene ge\u00e7ecek olma fikri ve sorumluluklar\u0131n artacak olmas\u0131 evlilik karar\u0131...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4442,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,145],"tags":[27,184,561,562,563,52,408,8],"class_list":["post-4441","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","category-psikoloji","tag-aile-danismanligi","tag-antep-psikolog","tag-es-ozellikleri","tag-es-secimi-nasil-yapilir","tag-es-seciminde-dikkat-edilecek-hususlar-nelerdir","tag-evlilik-terapisi","tag-psikolog","tag-sehitkamil-aile-danismanim"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4441","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4441"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4441\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4441"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4441"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4441"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}