{"id":4580,"date":"2017-01-01T18:37:45","date_gmt":"2017-01-01T16:37:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=4580"},"modified":"2017-01-01T18:37:45","modified_gmt":"2017-01-01T16:37:45","slug":"askinizda-guven-olusturmanin-yollari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/4580\/askinizda-guven-olusturmanin-yollari\/","title":{"rendered":"A\u015fk\u0131n\u0131zda G\u00fcven Olu\u015fturman\u0131n Yollar\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"

G\u00fcven,\u00a0b\u00fcy\u00fck sorunlarla y\u00fczle\u015fmeleri gerekti\u011fi zamanlarda bile \u00e7iftleri bir arada tutan yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 gibidir. O olmadan \u00e7iftler kriz zamanlar\u0131nda ayr\u0131lmaya daha meyilli olurlar; samimi olmay\u0131 beceremez ve birbirlerinden \u015f\u00fcphe duyarlar. Peki bunca ihtiya\u00e7 duyulan g\u00fcveni olu\u015fturman\u0131n yollar\u0131 nelerdir?<\/p>\n

D\u00fcr\u00fcst olun<\/strong><\/p>\n

Onun i\u00e7in bir s\u00fcrpriz yapmay\u0131 planlamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z s\u00fcrece, partnerinize asla yalan s\u00f6ylememelisiniz. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bile olsalar. Daha \u00f6nce hi\u00e7 s\u00f6ylememi\u015f olsan\u0131z bile, yalan\u0131n\u0131z ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 anda kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki insan ba\u015fka ne yalanlar s\u00f6ylemi\u015f oldu\u011funuzu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flayacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcvenilir olun<\/strong><\/p>\n

Verdi\u011finiz s\u00f6zleri mutlaka tutun. Saat sekizde yemek i\u00e7in bulu\u015facaksan\u0131z, orada olun. Eve gelirken s\u00fct alaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131za s\u00f6z verdiyseniz, unutmay\u0131n al\u0131n. Elbette sadakat gibi daha \u00f6nemli konularda da!<\/p>\n

S\u0131n\u0131rlar koyun<\/strong><\/p>\n

K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, bir ili\u015fkide oturulup konu\u015fularak s\u0131n\u0131rlar kararla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmad\u0131k\u00e7a her an sahneye \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p kendinden beklenileni yapabilir. \u0130\u015f arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zla fazla samimi olman\u0131z ya da eski sevgiliniz ile hala g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp, d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131z sevdi\u011finiz insan\u0131 rahats\u0131z ediyorsa, yapmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. \u00d6nceli\u011finiz hayat\u0131n\u0131zdaki insan ve onun hisleri olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Adil olun<\/strong><\/p>\n

Eski sevgililerinizin hatalar\u0131n\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ondan \u00e7\u0131karmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n. E\u011fer daha \u00f6nce sadakatsiz ve d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmayan birisi ile birlikte olduysan\u0131z, yine ayn\u0131 \u015feyleri ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z korkusu ile yeni ili\u015fkinizi mahvetmeyin.<\/p>\n

Kendinize g\u00fcvenin<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki insan\u0131 siz se\u00e7tiniz, kalbiniz se\u00e7ti. \u0130\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcleriniz onun a\u015fk\u0131n\u0131za lay\u0131k oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi. E\u011fer kendinize g\u00fcvenirseniz, do\u011fru se\u00e7imi yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bilirsiniz. Ve bu g\u00fcven in\u015fa etmek i\u00e7in g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir temel olu\u015fturur.<\/p>\n

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