{"id":4832,"date":"2017-02-25T01:08:59","date_gmt":"2017-02-24T23:08:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=4832"},"modified":"2017-02-25T01:08:59","modified_gmt":"2017-02-24T23:08:59","slug":"evlenince-degisir-mi-evlenince-degisir-misiniz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/4832\/evlenince-degisir-mi-evlenince-degisir-misiniz\/","title":{"rendered":"Evlenince De\u011fi\u015fir mi?, Evlenince De\u011fi\u015fir misiniz?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130li\u015fkinin en keyifli zamanlar\u0131nda, kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakini tahlil etmeye ba\u015flar\u0131z. Ho\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, sevdi\u011fimiz, a\u015f\u0131k oldu\u011fumuz adam\u0131n da kusurlar\u0131 varm\u0131\u015f me\u011fer!<\/p>\n<p>A\u015fk\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcs\u00fc etkisini azaltt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, ak\u0131l tahlillere ba\u015flar. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin size g\u00f6re ters gelen yanlar\u0131n\u0131, sinir bozan huylar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz.<\/p>\n<p>Bu noktada ise, akl\u0131m\u0131za \u015fu c\u00fcmleyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz: \u201cEvlenince de\u011fi\u015fir!\u201d \u0130\u015fte yap\u0131lan en b\u00fcy\u00fck hatalardan biri budur!<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fimi \u00e7ok zordur. Al\u0131\u015fkanlar zamanla de\u011fi\u015febilir. Ya\u015fam denilen \u00f6\u011fretmen, hepimizi geli\u015fmeye ve de\u011fi\u015fime zorlar.<\/p>\n<p>Evlenene kadar kerevizden hi\u00e7 ho\u015flanmayan ve a\u011fz\u0131na bile s\u00fcrmeyen bir adam\u0131n, e\u015finin pi\u015firdi\u011fi kereviz yeme\u011fini bay\u0131larak yemesi, s\u0131kl\u0131kla rastlanabilir bir durumdur. Ancak a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 tutumlu veya eli s\u0131k\u0131 birini, c\u00f6mert bir adam haline getiremezsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar bile \u00e7ok zor de\u011fi\u015firken, ki\u015filerin kimlikleriyle ilgili bir de\u011fi\u015fim olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek evlili\u011fe girmek, sonradan hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaratabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Evlenmeye karar verdi\u011finizde, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki insan\u0131 iyi de\u011ferlendirin. Size g\u00f6re eksilerini ve art\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 belirleyin. Do\u011fru g\u00f6zlemleyin ve tan\u0131y\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>Ondan sonra yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken ise; sevmedi\u011finiz y\u00f6nlerini kabullenmektir. E\u011fer evlendikten sonra onu de\u011fi\u015ftirece\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek, evlenene kadar ge\u00e7en s\u00fcrede tahamm\u00fcl etmeyi denerseniz, sonunda mutsuz olursunuz.<\/p>\n<p>En ho\u015funuza gitmeyen yanlar\u0131na ra\u011fmen ve o y\u00f6nlerini de sevebildi\u011finizde, evlili\u011finizin uzun soluklu ve huzurlu olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayabilirsiniz. Unutmay\u0131n! Evlenince de\u011fi\u015fmeye yak\u0131n olan \u015feyler, sadece al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klard\u0131r! Karakteriniz sizinle yol alacakt\u0131r!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130li\u015fkinin en keyifli zamanlar\u0131nda, kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakini tahlil etmeye ba\u015flar\u0131z. Ho\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, sevdi\u011fimiz, a\u015f\u0131k oldu\u011fumuz adam\u0131n da kusurlar\u0131 varm\u0131\u015f me\u011fer! A\u015fk\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcs\u00fc etkisini&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4833,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,145],"tags":[27,685,686,23,52,8],"class_list":["post-4832","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","category-psikoloji","tag-aile-danismanligi","tag-evlenince-degisir-mi","tag-evlenince-degisir-misiniz","tag-evlilik-danismani","tag-evlilik-terapisi","tag-sehitkamil-aile-danismanim"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4832","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4832"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4832\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4832"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4832"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4832"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}