{"id":4961,"date":"2024-11-14T12:57:09","date_gmt":"2024-11-14T12:57:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=4961"},"modified":"2024-12-29T13:07:22","modified_gmt":"2024-12-29T13:07:22","slug":"siz-mi-yoksa-aileniz-mi-evleniyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/4961\/siz-mi-yoksa-aileniz-mi-evleniyor\/","title":{"rendered":"Siz mi Yoksa Aileniz mi Evleniyor?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u015eunu hi\u00e7 unutmamal\u0131s\u0131n; sadece sevdi\u011fin ki\u015fiyle de\u011fil, onun ailesiyle de evleniyorsun! \u015eu anda sana kar\u015f\u0131 tutumlar\u0131 neyse, muhtemelen \u00e7ok \u00e7ok uzun y\u0131llar bu tutumlar\u0131 devam edecek.<\/p>\n<p>Onlar\u0131n derdi nedir, bunu \u00f6\u011frenmek i\u00e7in her ikisini de kar\u015f\u0131na al\u0131p konu\u015fabilirsin ama anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n modeldeki ki\u015filer buna da muhtemelen \u00e7ok s\u0131cak bakmayacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Burada maalesef i\u015fin en a\u011f\u0131r ve zor k\u0131sm\u0131 ni\u015fanl\u0131na d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. Onun \u00e7ok iyi bir k\u00f6pr\u00fc olmas\u0131 gerekiyor. Sen onun ailesini sevmek zorunda de\u011filsin ama elbette sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermek zorundas\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fin zor k\u0131sm\u0131 \u015fu: E\u011fer ni\u015fanl\u0131n ailesiyle senin aranda do\u011fru, ak\u0131lc\u0131 ve olgun bir tav\u0131r sergileyemezse, bu ili\u015fki bir g\u00fcn par\u00e7alan\u0131r. Sen t\u00fcm iyi niyetinle davranmaya devam et ama bil ki, ipin ucu sende de\u011fil, ni\u015fanl\u0131s\u0131n elinde.<\/p>\n<p>Sizden \u00f6nce evlenen b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinden benzer s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar ya\u015fayan ama durumu \u00e7\u00f6zm\u00fc\u015f olanlar\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131r. Akl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda, ni\u015fanl\u0131n\u0131n sevdi\u011fi ki\u015filer varsa, birlikte gidin ve onlar\u0131n ge\u00e7ti\u011fi yolu \u00f6\u011frenin. Deneyimlerinden yararlan\u0131n. Size ba\u015fka bir \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yolu g\u00f6sterebilirler. Bunun haricinde evlilik \u00f6ncesi e\u011fitim ve dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k alman\u0131z da \u00e7ok iyi bir yol g\u00f6sterici olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u015eunu hi\u00e7 unutmamal\u0131s\u0131n; sadece sevdi\u011fin ki\u015fiyle de\u011fil, onun ailesiyle de evleniyorsun! \u015eu anda sana kar\u015f\u0131 tutumlar\u0131 neyse, muhtemelen \u00e7ok \u00e7ok&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4962,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,145],"tags":[1150,1151,407,8,156,1152],"class_list":["post-4961","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","category-psikoloji","tag-evlilik-oncesi-terapi","tag-evlilik-surecinde-terapi","tag-iliski-terapisi","tag-sehitkamil-aile-danismanim","tag-sehitkamil-evlilik-terapisi","tag-siz-mi-yoksa-aileniz-mi-evleniyor"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4961","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4961"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4961\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8317,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4961\/revisions\/8317"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4961"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4961"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4961"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}