{"id":5148,"date":"2017-04-14T14:30:58","date_gmt":"2017-04-14T14:30:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=5148"},"modified":"2017-04-14T14:30:58","modified_gmt":"2017-04-14T14:30:58","slug":"akran-zorbaligi-onleme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/5148\/akran-zorbaligi-onleme\/","title":{"rendered":"Akran Zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00d6nleme"},"content":{"rendered":"

Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir veya \u00e7ok say\u0131da \u00e7ocu\u011fun, kendilerinden daha zay\u0131f olanlar\u0131 bilerek ve devaml\u0131 olarak rahats\u0131z etmesi ve kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakinin kendini koruyamayacak halde oldu\u011fu bir sald\u0131rganl\u0131k \u00e7e\u015fididir.<\/p>\n

Zorbal\u0131k ile sald\u0131rganl\u0131k aras\u0131nda ki farkl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n iyi anla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekmektedir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sald\u0131rganl\u0131k ve \u015fiddet i\u00e7eren eylemler birbirine denk \u00e7ocuklar aras\u0131nda ya\u015fan\u0131rken zorbal\u0131k, kurban\u0131n korkmas\u0131na, ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmesine neden olur ve g\u00fc\u00e7lerde orant\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. Kurban taraf\u0131ndan herhangi bir k\u0131\u015fk\u0131rtma tahrik s\u00f6z konusu de\u011fildir. G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olan, zay\u0131f olan \u00e7ocu\u011fa bask\u0131 yapar, fiziksel, s\u00f6zel ve psikolojik sad\u0131r\u0131 eylemlerini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirir.<\/p>\n

AKRAN ZORBALI\u011eI HANG\u0130 \u00c7OCUKLARDA G\u00d6R\u00dcL\u00dcR<\/h2>\n

Genel olarak 7-16 ya\u015f aral\u0131\u011f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuklarda kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131lan zorbal\u0131k, 9-15 ya\u015flar\u0131 aras\u0131nda maksimum seviyeye \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. Zorbalar ve kurbanlar genelde ayn\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131fta bulunuyorlar ve ayn\u0131 ya\u015fta oluyorlar. Toplumsal yeteneklerin geli\u015fmesi nedeniyle kurbanlar\u0131n ya\u015flar\u0131 y\u00fckseldik\u00e7e zorbal\u0131\u011fa u\u011frama d\u00fczeyleri azal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Hangi \u00c7ocuklar daha \u00e7ok zorbal\u0131\u011fa maruz kal\u0131r<\/h2>\n

Okulda ve s\u0131n\u0131fta yaln\u0131z hisseden, aktivitelere i\u015ftirak etmeyen, arkada\u015f edinemeyen, ileti\u015fim kurmada problem ya\u015fayan ve kendini ispatlama yeteneklerinden yoksun \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131na maruz kalma ihtimali daha fazla. Kurban olan \u00e7ocuklar di\u011fer \u00e7ocuklara k\u0131ykatiyen daha kayg\u0131l\u0131, g\u00fcvensiz, mutsuz, \u00e7ekingen ve daha duyarl\u0131 olabilirler.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n Sald\u0131rgan Yeti\u015ftirilmesi<\/h2>\n

Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftiren \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n en bask\u0131n talepleri, di\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar \u00fcst\u00fcnde bask\u0131nl\u0131k kurmak ve denetimi elinde tutmakt\u0131r. Bu \u00e7ocuklar genelde sald\u0131rgan davran\u0131\u015flar tak\u0131narak bir gruba lider olabilece\u011fini k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015fta farketmi\u015ftir. Zorbal\u0131k uygulayan \u00e7ocuklar, sald\u0131rganl\u0131\u011f\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc genelde evlerinde \u00f6\u011frenir veya benzer disiplin bi\u00e7imlerine maruz kalarak b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fclm\u00fc\u015flerdir. Ayr\u0131ca bu \u00e7ocuklar, genelde d\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fck ki\u015filik \u00f6zellikleri sergilerler. Arkada\u015f edinmeyi ve s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmeyi seven, sosyal ili\u015fkilerden haz duyan, arkada\u015flar\u0131 i\u00e7erisinde tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f olan \u00e7ocuklard\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n Zorbal\u0131\u011fa Maruz Kalmamas\u0131 \u0130\u00e7in Aileler Ne Yapmal\u0131d\u0131r<\/h2>\n

Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n nedenlerini incelerken okul ve aile ortam\u0131, i\u00e7inde bulunulan toplumun \u00f6zellikleri beraber de\u011ferlendirilmeli. Zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131n ba\u015fl\u0131ca nedenleri aras\u0131nda s\u0131n\u0131flarda y\u00fckselen \u00f6\u011frenci say\u0131s\u0131, \u00f6\u011frenciler aras\u0131nda rekabetin a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 peki\u015ftirilmesi, problemlerin \u015fiddetle halledilebilece\u011fine olan inan\u00e7 ve tutumlar, kurban\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck benlik sayg\u0131s\u0131 say\u0131labilir.<\/p>\n

Anne Babalara D\u00fc\u015fenler:<\/h3>\n

\u2022 \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sald\u0131rgan davran\u0131\u015flarla istedikleri \u015feyleri yapmay\u0131n.
\n\u2022 \u00c7ocuklar\u0131za sosyal yeti\u015fkinli\u011fne uyan g\u00f6revler verilerek kendine g\u00fcvenin olu\u015fmas\u0131 y\u00f6n\u00fcnde destekleyin.
\n\u2022 \u00c7ocuklar k\u0131zg\u0131n ve sinirliyken onlarla tart\u0131\u015fmamal\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun sakinle\u015fle\u015fmesinin ard\u0131ndan bu durumu beraber konu\u015fularak de\u011ferlendirin.
\n\u2022 Ebeveynler \u00e7ocu\u011fun izledi\u011fi televizyon kanallar\u0131, filmler ve oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131 oyunlar\u0131, konusu ile ilgili se\u00e7ici ve dikkatli olmal\u0131d\u0131r.
\n\u2022 Aileler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n di\u011fer arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131s\u0131ra tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131 y\u00f6n\u00fcndeki isteklerini, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na yans\u0131tmaktan ka\u00e7\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r
\n\u2022 Anne babalar, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n hareketleri hakk\u0131nda s\u0131k s\u0131k \u00f6\u011fretmenlerinden bilgi almal\u0131 ve \u015fayet bir alanda problem belirtilirse, \u00e7ocu\u011funa nas\u0131l yard\u0131m edebilece\u011fi konusu ile ilgili \u00f6\u011fretmenler ve uzmanlar ile i\u015fbirli\u011fi yapmal\u0131d\u0131r<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir veya \u00e7ok say\u0131da \u00e7ocu\u011fun, kendilerinden daha zay\u0131f olanlar\u0131 bilerek ve devaml\u0131 olarak rahats\u0131z etmesi ve kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakinin kendini...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5149,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[192],"tags":[4,752,753,754,182,408,163],"class_list":["post-5148","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ogrenci-koclugu","tag-aile-terapisi","tag-akran-zorbaligi-nedir","tag-akran-zorbaligi-onleme","tag-ergenlik-danismani","tag-online-terapi","tag-psikolog","tag-sehitkamil-psikolog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5148","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5148"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5148\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5148"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5148"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5148"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}