{"id":5580,"date":"2017-08-17T02:08:19","date_gmt":"2017-08-16T23:08:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=5580"},"modified":"2017-08-17T02:08:19","modified_gmt":"2017-08-16T23:08:19","slug":"babalarin-gercek-babaliga-gecmeleri-icin-tavsiyeler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/5580\/babalarin-gercek-babaliga-gecmeleri-icin-tavsiyeler\/","title":{"rendered":"Babalar\u0131n ger\u00e7ek babal\u0131\u011fa ge\u00e7meleri i\u00e7in tavsiyeler"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Anneler:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ben bilirim, ben yapar\u0131m psikolojisinden \u00e7\u0131k\u0131n.<\/li>\n<li>Babalara g\u00fcvenin. Onlar en az anneler kadar bu konuda duyarl\u0131d\u0131rlar.<\/li>\n<li>Ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta onlar\u0131 odada yaln\u0131z b\u0131rak\u0131n. Bu s\u00fcre g\u00fcn ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e uzayarak devam edebilir.<\/li>\n<li>Baz\u0131 g\u00fcnler kendinize \u00f6zel zaman ay\u0131r\u0131n ve bebekleri babaya teslim edin. Bu kendinize bakmak i\u00e7in yeterli zaman ve e\u015finize farkl\u0131 bir \u00f6d\u00fcl kazand\u0131racakt\u0131r. E\u015fini bak\u0131ml\u0131 ve g\u00fczel g\u00f6rmeyi her koca ister.<\/li>\n<li>Baban\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funun bak\u0131m\u0131 i\u00e7in her yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 s\u00f6zel olarak \u00f6d\u00fcllendirin Bu o davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 daha sevgi dolu ve istekli tekrarlayaca\u011f\u0131 anlam\u0131na gelir.<\/li>\n<li>Alt\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirme veya besleme g\u00f6revini payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda \u00e7ocu\u011fun ne kadar huzurlu ve mutlu oldu\u011funun ipu\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6sterin.<\/li>\n<li>Baz\u0131 bak\u0131m g\u00f6revlerini sizden daha iyi yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 itiraf edin. Hatta i\u015fin inceliklerini ondan \u00f6\u011frenme hevesini bile g\u00f6sterebilirsiniz.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7evrenizde bu i\u015fleri hi\u00e7 onaylamayan arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z varsa onlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda konuyu fazla a\u00e7may\u0131n. Gurur k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olarak niteleyip e\u015finizin vazge\u00e7mesine neden olabilirler.<\/li>\n<li>Aile b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinin yan\u0131nda dikkatli davran\u0131n. Olumsuz yarg\u0131lamalar veya su\u00e7lamalarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/li>\n<li>Hata yapt\u0131klar\u0131nda bunu \u00f6\u011frenmek i\u00e7in bir f\u0131rsat olarak g\u00f6rmelerini sa\u011flay\u0131n ve en k\u0131sa zamanda tekrar ettirin. Hatta sizin \u00f6\u011frenirken daha fazla hata yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 itiraf edin.<\/li>\n<li>O bebekle ilgilenirken siz de e\u015finizle ilgilenin. Kendini \u00f6zel hissedecektir. Mesela \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fi bir yeme\u011fi yapabilir, yada sa\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 ok\u015fayarak ilginizi belli edebilirsiniz.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Anneler: Ben bilirim, ben yapar\u0131m psikolojisinden \u00e7\u0131k\u0131n. Babalara g\u00fcvenin. Onlar en az anneler kadar bu konuda duyarl\u0131d\u0131rlar. Ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta onlar\u0131 odada&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5581,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,10,145],"tags":[760,870,871,872,720,139,421,406],"class_list":["post-5580","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","category-pedagog","category-psikoloji","tag-anne-baba-egitimi","tag-baba-bebek-bakimi","tag-baba-cocuk","tag-baba-egitimi","tag-cocuk-psikologu","tag-kizilay-pedagog","tag-pedagog","tag-sehitkamil"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5580","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5580"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5580\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5580"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5580"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5580"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}