{"id":5601,"date":"2017-08-20T23:11:31","date_gmt":"2017-08-20T20:11:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=5601"},"modified":"2017-08-20T23:11:31","modified_gmt":"2017-08-20T20:11:31","slug":"cocuk-psikolojisinde-anne-baba-tutumlari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/5601\/cocuk-psikolojisinde-anne-baba-tutumlari\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuk Psikolojisinde Anne Baba Tutumlar\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ebeveynlerin \u00e7ocuk \u00fczerindeki bili\u015fsel ve zihinsel etkileri b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr. Karakter, miza\u00e7 ve ki\u015fili\u011fin olu\u015fmas\u0131nda \u00e7evresel etmenlerin etkileri olsa da temel e\u011fitim ve olu\u015fum ailede ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Geli\u015fimdeki do\u011fru ileti\u015fim, tutarl\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f, \u00f6zsayg\u0131 bili\u015fsel ve duygusal etkenler rol oynamaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Anne baba tutumu nedir? \u00c7ocuk \u00fczerindeki etkileri nedir?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ki\u015fili\u011fin temeli ilk ayda aile i\u00e7inde olu\u015fmaya ba\u015flar. G\u00f6zlem taklit ve model alma yoluyla s\u00fcre\u011fenlik yaratarak karakteri olu\u015fturur. Miza\u00e7 daha \u00e7ok kal\u0131t\u0131mla gelse de ahlaki boyutlu karakter ise anne baba tutumlar\u0131 ile \u015fekillenir. \u00c7ocu\u011fum hep b\u00f6yleydi benim kataca\u011f\u0131m ne olabilirdi? Dedi\u011finizi duyar gibiyiz evet bir tak\u0131m \u00f6zelli\u011fin kal\u0131t\u0131mla olu\u015ftu\u011fu bilinen bir ger\u00e7ek ancak anne ve baba olarak a\u015f\u0131r\u0131l\u0131klara engel olmak var olan k\u00f6t\u00fc dedi\u011fimiz davran\u0131\u015flar bile sizlerin tutumlar\u0131n\u0131zla t\u00f6rp\u00fclenebilir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bask\u0131c\u0131 Anne Baba Tutumu:\u00a0<\/strong>En \u00e7ok \u00f6zsayg\u0131y\u0131 zedeleyen bir tutumdur. Bask\u0131c\u0131 kuralc\u0131 ben merkezli fikirlere de\u011fer vermeyen ve a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ele\u015ftirel yakla\u015f\u0131m s\u00f6z konusudur.\u00c7ocu\u011fa verilen ceza su\u00e7a g\u00f6re orant\u0131s\u0131zd\u0131r.D\u00f6vme k\u00fcf\u00fcr etme ba\u011f\u0131rma belirgin ceza y\u00f6ntemleridir.Bu tutumda yeti\u015ftirilen \u00e7ocuk ya i\u00e7e kapan\u0131r ya da sa\u011flayamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ileti\u015fimi \u00e7evrede aramaya ba\u015flar. A\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k duygusu ya da isyank\u00e2rl\u0131k belirgin g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130lgisiz Anne Baba Tutumu:\u00a0<\/strong>\u00c7ocu\u011fun maddi ve manevi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lamayan anne babad\u0131r. Disiplin yok denecek kadar azd\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk kendi ba\u015f\u0131na b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in y\u00f6nlendirme eksikli\u011fi hissederler bo\u015flu\u011fa d\u00fc\u015fme s\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. Bu ba\u015f\u0131bo\u015fluk ilerde su\u00e7 i\u015fleme oran\u0131n\u0131 artt\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 bir etkendir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 Koruyucu Anne Baba Tutumu:\u00a0<\/strong>\u00c7ocu\u011funa b\u00fcy\u00fck bir sevgiyle ba\u011flanm\u0131\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcnmesine ra\u011fmen a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 kontrol anne ve babay\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fun her istedi\u011fini yapma davran\u0131\u015f\u0131na iter. Her istedi\u011fi yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015f hay\u0131r denmeyen \u00e7ocuk ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 bir ki\u015filik geli\u015ftirerek ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z hareket etmez daima onay isteme davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 geli\u015ftirir. Ayr\u0131ca her ihtiyac\u0131 anne ve baba taraf\u0131ndan yerine getirildi\u011finden \u00f6zg\u00fcven problemine s\u0131k\u00e7a rastlan\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Demokratik Anne Baba Tutumu:\u00a0<\/strong>E\u015fitlik\u00e7i, \u00e7ocu\u011fun birey oldu\u011funun bilincinin a\u015f\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131, benlik alg\u0131s\u0131 geli\u015fmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 anne ve babay\u0131 temsil eder. Her \u015feyi ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc kar\u015f\u0131layan de\u011fil belli kurallar\u0131 olan ancak kat\u0131 bir tutumla kurallara uyma zorunlulu\u011funu getirmeyen bir yakla\u015f\u0131m s\u00f6z konusudur. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve dengeli bir ki\u015filik geli\u015fimi ancak demokratik tutumla m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ebeveynlerin \u00e7ocuk \u00fczerindeki bili\u015fsel ve zihinsel etkileri b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr. Karakter, miza\u00e7 ve ki\u015fili\u011fin olu\u015fmas\u0131nda \u00e7evresel etmenlerin etkileri olsa da temel e\u011fitim&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5602,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,10,145],"tags":[122,126,875,139,678],"class_list":["post-5601","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","category-pedagog","category-psikoloji","tag-cocuk-egitimi","tag-cocuk-psikolojisi","tag-cocuk-psikolojisinde-anne-baba-tutumlari","tag-kizilay-pedagog","tag-sehitkamil-cocuk-psikologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5601","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5601"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5601\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5601"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5601"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5601"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}