{"id":5725,"date":"2017-09-22T13:30:52","date_gmt":"2017-09-22T10:30:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=5725"},"modified":"2017-09-22T13:30:52","modified_gmt":"2017-09-22T10:30:52","slug":"pozitif-cocuk-yetistirmenin-formulu-ve-oz-disiplin-olusturma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/5725\/pozitif-cocuk-yetistirmenin-formulu-ve-oz-disiplin-olusturma\/","title":{"rendered":"Pozitif \u00c7ocuk Yeti\u015ftirmenin Form\u00fcl\u00fc ve \u00d6z Disiplin Olu\u015fturma"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"intro\">\n<p>Mutlu ve kendine g\u00fcvenen \u00e7ocuklar yeti\u015ftirmeyi m\u00fcmk\u00fcn k\u0131lan ve son y\u0131llarda anne babalar\u0131n g\u00f6zdesi olan \u201cPozitif Disiplin\u201din yararlar\u0131 nelerdir? Ebeveynler pozitif \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in hangi noktalara dikkat etmelidirler?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p>Mutlu ve kendine g\u00fcvenen \u00e7ocuklar yeti\u015ftirmeyi m\u00fcmk\u00fcn k\u0131lan ve son y\u0131llarda anne babalar\u0131n g\u00f6zdesi olan\u00a0in yararlar\u0131 nelerdir? Ebeveynler pozitif \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in hangi noktalara dikkat etmelidirler?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pozitif disiplin ile yeti\u015fen \u00e7ocuk mutlu \u00e7ocuk olur!\u00a0<\/strong><br \/>\n<em>Pozitif Disiplin y\u00f6ntemi;<\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011fun kendini daha iyi hissetmesini sa\u011flar ve yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015fe olan iste\u011fini \u00e7o\u011falt\u0131r,<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011fun \u00f6z g\u00fcvenini ve kendine olan inanc\u0131n\u0131 art\u0131r\u0131r,<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011fun problem \u00e7\u00f6zme becerilerini geli\u015ftirir<\/li>\n<li>Bu y\u00f6nleri ile\u00a0y\u00f6ntemi mutlu ve ne\u015feli \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmenin form\u00fcl\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/li>\n<li>Pozitif disiplin y\u00f6ntemi ile sorumluluk alan, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcreten, yarat\u0131c\u0131 ve \u00f6zg\u00fcrce karar alabilen, toplum ve ahlaki kurallara uyan \u00e7ocuk, gelecekte de ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fczenleyen, organizasyon becerisi geli\u015fmi\u015f, \u00f6zg\u00fcvenli ve \u00fcreten bir yeti\u015fkin olmaya adayd\u0131r.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Pozitif disiplin ile yeti\u015fen \u00e7ocuk olumsuz olaylar\u0131n \u00fcstesinden daha kolayl\u0131kla gelir!<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Pozitif disiplin ile yeti\u015ftirilen bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun olumsuz ve travmatik olaylara yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 daha yap\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r ve \u00e7ocuk negatif olaylar\u0131n \u00fcstesinden daha kolayl\u0131kla gelir.<\/li>\n<li>Pozitif disiplin ile yeti\u015ftirilen \u00e7ocu\u011fun depresyona girme, travma sonras\u0131 stres bozuklu\u011fu ya\u015fama ihtimali daha azd\u0131r.<\/li>\n<li>Pozitif disiplin, kendini y\u00f6nlendiren yeti\u015fkinlere kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fun genellikle sergiledi\u011fi pasif-sald\u0131rgan taktikleri kullanmas\u0131n\u0131 engeller. B\u00f6ylelikle \u00e7ocuk enerjisinin \u00e7o\u011funu kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yenmede kullan\u0131r.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Pozitif \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmenin 17 form\u00fcl\u00fc<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211;<\/strong>\u00c7ocu\u011funuza se\u00e7enek sunun ve ona se\u00e7im yapacak f\u0131rsatlar verin.<\/p>\n<p>-Problemi \u00e7ocu\u011funuz ad\u0131na \u00e7\u00f6zmeyin veya ona \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00f6nerileri sunmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>-\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun hata yapmas\u0131na f\u0131rsat verin ki hatalar\u0131ndan sonu\u00e7 \u00e7\u0131karabilsin.<\/p>\n<p>-\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n duygular\u0131n\u0131 anlayabilmesini sa\u011flay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>-\u00c7ocu\u011funuza olumlu yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 davran\u0131\u015ftan hemen sonra g\u00f6sterin. \u00d6ncelikle &#8220;aferin, \u00e7ok iyi yapt\u0131n&#8221; gibi s\u00f6zel destek verin, sonra s\u0131rt s\u0131vazlama ve sa\u00e7\u0131n\u0131 ok\u015fama gibi fiziksel temas ve daha sonra da \u00e7ocu\u011funuza arkada\u015f\u0131yla program yapma, ve onu parka, sinemaya g\u00f6t\u00fcrme gibi \u00f6d\u00fcller verin.<\/p>\n<p>-\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun olumlu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 e\u015finize ve aile b\u00fcy\u00fcklerine abartmadan aktar\u0131n ve bunlar\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun duymas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>-\u00c7ocu\u011funuza hem ev i\u00e7inde hem de ev d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda sorumluluklar verin.<\/p>\n<p>-\u00c7ocu\u011funuza onu ko\u015fulsuz sevdi\u011finizi hissettirin.<\/p>\n<p>-\u00c7ocu\u011funuza tutarl\u0131 davran\u0131n. Onaylamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir davran\u0131\u015fa sonradan izin vermeyin.<\/p>\n<p>-\u00c7ocu\u011funuza a\u00e7\u0131k, net ve anla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan emin mesajlar verin.<\/p>\n<p>-\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun fiziksel ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>-\u00c7ocu\u011funuza g\u00fcvenli bir \u00e7evre ve ortam sunun.<\/p>\n<p>-\u00c7ocu\u011funuza zaman ay\u0131r\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>-\u00c7ocu\u011funuza kurallar ve s\u0131n\u0131rlar koyun.<\/p>\n<p>-\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu, hak etmedi\u011fi \u015fekilde ya da abart\u0131l\u0131 \u015fekilde \u00f6vmeyin.<\/p>\n<p>-\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu koruyucu yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131z s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 ve kollay\u0131c\u0131 yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131z s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131z olsun.<\/p>\n<p>-\u00c7ocu\u011funuza kar\u015f\u0131 sab\u0131rl\u0131 ve ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc olun.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mutlu ve kendine g\u00fcvenen \u00e7ocuklar yeti\u015ftirmeyi m\u00fcmk\u00fcn k\u0131lan ve son y\u0131llarda anne babalar\u0131n g\u00f6zdesi olan \u201cPozitif Disiplin\u201din yararlar\u0131 nelerdir? 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