{"id":6028,"date":"2024-10-26T23:06:40","date_gmt":"2024-10-26T23:06:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=6028"},"modified":"2024-12-29T13:09:58","modified_gmt":"2024-12-29T13:09:58","slug":"cocuklarin-yasina-gore-bosanmanin-etkileri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/6028\/cocuklarin-yasina-gore-bosanmanin-etkileri\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n Ya\u015f\u0131na G\u00f6re Bo\u015fanman\u0131n Etkileri"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Oyun \u00c7ocuklu\u011fu D\u00f6nemi -Bebeklik D\u00f6nemi (1-3 Ya\u015flar Aras\u0131)<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><strong>Bo\u015fanma Bu D\u00f6nemde \u00c7ocuk \u0130\u00e7in Ne \u0130fade Eder?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Ana-babadan birinin evden ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlar. Ama sebebini kavrayamaz.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>Bu D\u00f6nemde \u00c7ocu\u011fun Bo\u015fanmaya Kar\u015f\u0131 Tepkileri?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Eskisine g\u00f6re daha s\u0131k ve \u00e7ok a\u011flama, ba\u011flanma.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Uyku sorunlar\u0131<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Gerileme :Alt\u0131na ka\u00e7\u0131rma, parmak emmenin yeniden ba\u015flamas\u0131.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Ebeveynden ayr\u0131 oldu\u011funda endi\u015fe ve kayg\u0131 hissetme.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00d6fke patlamalar\u0131.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Is\u0131rma ve rahats\u0131z edici davranma gibi sald\u0131rgan davran\u0131\u015flar.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>Bu D\u00f6nemde Ebeveynler Neler Yapabilir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Eskiden oldu\u011fu gibi, g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131n ritmini bozmadan eskisi gibi ya\u015famaya devam etmek<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>S\u00fcrekli endi\u015feli g\u00f6r\u00fcnmekten ka\u00e7\u0131nmak.\u00c7ocu\u011fu g\u00fcvenli bir aile ortam\u0131nda yeti\u015ftirmek..<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00c7ocukla birebir zaman ge\u00e7irmek (Anne ve baban\u0131n ayr\u0131 ayr\u0131 zaman ge\u00e7irebilir.)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Okul \u00d6ncesi \u00c7ocuklar (3-6 Ya\u015f Aras\u0131)<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><strong>Bo\u015fanma Bu D\u00f6nemde \u00c7ocuk \u0130\u00e7in Ne \u0130fade Eder?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Bo\u015fanman\u0131n anlam\u0131n\u0131 tam olarak anlayamamakla birlikte, anne veya babadan birinin hayat\u0131nda eskisi gibi yer almad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark eder.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>Bu D\u00f6nemde \u00c7ocu\u011fun Bo\u015fanmaya Kar\u015f\u0131 Tepkileri?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Ya\u015fananlardan dolay\u0131 kendisini su\u00e7layabilir.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00d6fke duygular\u0131n\u0131 yo\u011fun olarak ya\u015fayabilir.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Birlikte ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ebeveynine h\u0131r\u00e7\u0131n ve \u00f6fkeli ve huysuz olur.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Uyku sorunlar\u0131 ya\u015fayabilir.Geceleri korkulu r\u00fcyalar g\u00f6rebilir..<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>Bu D\u00f6nemde Ebeveynler Neler Yapabilir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Ayr\u0131 kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ebeveynini istedi\u011fi zaman ziyaret edebilece\u011fine dair g\u00fcven hissi vermek ve bunu d\u00fczenli olarak ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmek.Ayr\u0131 kalan ebeveynle \u00e7ocu\u011fun telefonla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesine olanak haz\u0131rlamak.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00c7ocukla, anne ve baba olarak farkl\u0131 zamanlarda farkl\u0131 etkinliklerde bulu\u015fmak (sinema, tiyatro, piknik).Birlikte ge\u00e7irilen vakitlerde, \u00e7ocu\u011fu konu\u015fmaya ve ileti\u015fim kurmaya cesaretlendirmek.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011fun duygular\u0131n\u0131 ifade olana\u011f\u0131 bulabilece\u011fi do\u011fal ortamlardan faydalanmak. (Anaokulunda oyun oynama, evde parmak boya ve serbest resim faaliyetleri, birlikte kitap okuma gibi.)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Bo\u015fanmadan onun sorumlu olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n s\u00fcrekli ve d\u00fczenli olarak yerine getirilece\u011fini, onu hi\u00e7bir zaman yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlatmak.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Okul D\u00f6nemi (6-11 ya\u015f)<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><strong>Bo\u015fanma Bu D\u00f6nemde \u00c7ocuk \u0130\u00e7in Ne \u0130fade Eder?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Bo\u015fanma olgusunun ne oldu\u011funu anlamaya ba\u015flar.Ana-babas\u0131n\u0131n art\u0131k birlikte ya\u015famayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve birbirlerini eskisi gibi sevmeyeceklerini anlar.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>Bu D\u00f6nemde \u00c7ocu\u011fun Bo\u015fanmaya Kar\u015f\u0131 Tepkileri?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Kendisini aldat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f hissedebilir..<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Ebeveyninden gidenin geri d\u00f6nece\u011fini \u00fcmit eder.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Ayr\u0131lan ebeveynin art\u0131k kendisini istemedi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmezlikten gelebilir..<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Kimsenin onu okuldan almaya gelmeyece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek kayg\u0131 duyar.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Ba\u015f ve kar\u0131n a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131ndan \u015fikayet edebilir..<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Uyku d\u00fczeni bozulur. Uyuma g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fckleri ya\u015far.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Bo\u015fanmadan sorumlu tuttu\u011fu, birlikte oldu\u011fu ana ya da babas\u0131n\u0131, zaman zaman kum torbas\u0131 gibi h\u0131rpalar. Ona kar\u015f\u0131 h\u0131r\u00e7\u0131nla\u015f\u0131r.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>Bu D\u00f6nemde Ebeveynler Neler Yapabilir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Birlikte \u00f6zel zamanlar planlamak ve ev d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda anne ve babayla ayr\u0131 ayr\u0131 programlar ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmek (hayvanat bah\u00e7esine, lunaparka gitmek gibi).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Kaliteli vakit ge\u00e7irmek<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011fu b\u00fcy\u00fckbaba-b\u00fcy\u00fckanneye b\u0131rakmak yerine, anne ve baban\u0131n ayr\u0131 ayr\u0131 \u201cy\u00fcz y\u00fcze ileti\u015fim\u201d kurmaya dikkat g\u00f6stermeleri.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011fun ev d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda aktif olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak(tenis, basket, y\u00fczme gibi), ter atmak yoluyla bir yandan fiziki rahatlamay\u0131 sa\u011flarken, bir yandan da duygular\u0131n\u0131 ifade edebilece\u011fi ortam\u0131 haz\u0131rlayarak (enstr\u00fcman \u00e7almak, resim yapmak vb.) duygusal bo\u015fal\u0131m\u0131 sa\u011flamak.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Olan bitenle ilgili sordu\u011fu t\u00fcm sorular\u0131 cevapland\u0131rmak ve ileti\u015fim kanallar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k tutmak.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Depresyon ve korku belirtilerinde duyarl\u0131 olmak. Bir psikologdan devaml\u0131 profesyonel yard\u0131m almak.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>G\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n eskiden oldu\u011fu gibi, aynen devam\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Kendisini nas\u0131l hissetti\u011fini anlatmas\u0131 i\u00e7in cesaretlendirmek.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Anne\/baba, b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131, y\u00fcz\u00fcnde hi\u00e7bir gergin ifade yans\u0131tmadan, i\u00e7inden geldi\u011fi gelerek yapmal\u0131.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Oyun \u00c7ocuklu\u011fu D\u00f6nemi -Bebeklik D\u00f6nemi (1-3 Ya\u015flar Aras\u0131) Bo\u015fanma Bu D\u00f6nemde \u00c7ocuk \u0130\u00e7in Ne \u0130fade Eder? Ana-babadan birinin evden ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6029,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,10,145],"tags":[582,267,299,139,8,678],"class_list":["post-6028","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","category-pedagog","category-psikoloji","tag-bosanma","tag-bosanmada-cocuk-psikolojisi","tag-bosanmis-aileler","tag-kizilay-pedagog","tag-sehitkamil-aile-danismanim","tag-sehitkamil-cocuk-psikologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6028","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6028"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6028\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8339,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6028\/revisions\/8339"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6028"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6028"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6028"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}