{"id":6159,"date":"2024-11-20T23:56:17","date_gmt":"2024-11-20T23:56:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=6159"},"modified":"2024-12-29T13:09:12","modified_gmt":"2024-12-29T13:09:12","slug":"israrci-cocuga-nasil-davranmali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/6159\/israrci-cocuga-nasil-davranmali\/","title":{"rendered":"Israrc\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fa nas\u0131l davranmal\u0131 ?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Bir \u00e7ocuk istedi\u011fi bir \u015feyi elde emek i\u00e7in b\u0131kmadan usanmadan\u00a0\u0131srar<\/strong>\u00a0edebilir. Bunu en yak\u0131ndan bilenler ise tabii ki anne ve babalard\u0131r. Peki \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun \u00e7o\u011funlukla s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 veren bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nleyebilmenin yolu var m\u0131?<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n istedi\u011fini alana kadar\u00a0\u0131srar<\/strong>la ayn\u0131 \u015feyi sormas\u0131 ve m\u0131zm\u0131zlanmas\u0131 asl\u0131nda \u00f6\u011frenilen bir davran\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ve bu her ya\u015fta \u00f6\u011frenilebilir. Anne ve baba e\u011fer zay\u0131f bir an\u0131nda,\u00a0\u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n \u0131srar\u0131<\/strong>n\u0131n ard\u0131ndan ge\u00e7 yatmalar\u0131na izin verirse, i\u015fte o anda bu davran\u0131\u015f \u00f6\u011frenilir. Ve \u00e7ocuklar bunu tekrarlamaya ba\u015flayabilir.<\/p>\n

Ancak her \u00f6\u011frenilen davran\u0131\u015f gibi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n \u0131srar\u0131 ve m\u0131zm\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 da engellenebilir. Asl\u0131nda bu \u00fc\u00e7 kelime ile engellenebilir: \u201cSoru ve Yan\u0131t\u201d<\/p>\n

Konsept asl\u0131nda \u00e7ok basit. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011funuz evin bah\u00e7esinde b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00e7ukur kazmak istedi\u011finde \u201chay\u0131r\u201d cevab\u0131 alacakt\u0131r. Ancak ayn\u0131 \u015feyi be\u015f dakika sonra b\u00fcy\u00fck olas\u0131l\u0131kla yeniden soracakt\u0131r. \u00dcstelik bu kez b\u00fct\u00fcn \u015firinli\u011fini \u00fczerine tak\u0131n\u0131p l\u00fctfen\u201d ifadesini de ekleyecektir. Bu d\u00f6nemde kendinizi tekrar etmek ya da \u00e7ocu\u011funuza bir nutuk atmak yerine \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun g\u00f6zlerine bak\u0131n ve \u015fu y\u00f6ntemi tekrarlay\u0131n:<\/p>\n

1. Ad\u0131m:<\/strong>\u00a0Ona \u201cSoru ve Yan\u0131t oyununu duydun mu?\u201d diye sorun. B\u00fcy\u00fck olas\u0131l\u0131kla \u201chay\u0131r\u201d cevab\u0131n\u0131 verecektir.<\/p>\n

2. Ad\u0131m:<\/strong>\u00a0Ona bu kez, \u201cBana \u00e7ukur kaz\u0131p kazamayaca\u011f\u0131nla ilgili bir soru sordun mu?\u201d diye sorun. Bunu cevab\u0131 \u201cevet\u201d olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

3. Ad\u0131m:<\/strong>\u00a0Bu kez \u201cBu soruya yan\u0131t verdim mi?\u201d diye sorun. \u201cEvet, ama\u2026\u201d diye devam edecektir.<\/p>\n

4. Ad\u0131m:<\/strong>\u00a0\u00c7ocu\u011funuza bu kez \u201cSence ayn\u0131 soruyu tekrar tekrar sordu\u011funda fikrini de\u011fi\u015ftirecek birine benziyor muyum?\u201d diye sorun. Bunun \u00fczerine \u00e7ocu\u011funuz b\u00fcy\u00fck olas\u0131l\u0131kla somurtacak, bozulacak ve yan\u0131n\u0131zdan ayr\u0131lacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

5. Ad\u0131m:<\/strong>\u00a0E\u011fer bir kez daha ayn\u0131 soruyu sorarsa, sakin bir \u015fekilde, \u201cSordun ve yan\u0131t\u0131n\u0131 ald\u0131n\u201d diye yan\u0131t verin. Bunun haricinde ba\u015fka hi\u00e7bir kelimeye gerek yok.<\/p>\n

Bu tekni\u011fi uygulamaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzdan gelecek \u0131srarl\u0131 sorulara verece\u011finiz yan\u0131tlar sadece bu s\u00f6zc\u00fckler olmal\u0131. Burada istikrarl\u0131 ve \u0131srarl\u0131 olmak anahtar konumundad\u0131r. M\u0131zm\u0131zl\u0131k yapan ve \u0131srarla ayn\u0131 soruya soran \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla \u201cSoru ve Yan\u0131t\u201d oyunu oynamaya karar verirseniz bunu asl\u0131 unutmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Bir \u00e7ocuk istedi\u011fi bir \u015feyi elde emek i\u00e7in b\u0131kmadan usanmadan\u00a0\u0131srar\u00a0edebilir. Bunu en yak\u0131ndan bilenler ise tabii ki anne ve babalard\u0131r....<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6160,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,10,145],"tags":[1098,161,704,924,1099,139],"class_list":["post-6159","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","category-pedagog","category-psikoloji","tag-aglayan-cocuk","tag-cocuk-pedagog","tag-cocuk-psikolog","tag-inatci-cocuk","tag-israrci-cocuk","tag-kizilay-pedagog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6159","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6159"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6159\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8332,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6159\/revisions\/8332"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6159"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6159"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6159"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}