{"id":7271,"date":"2024-11-06T02:16:40","date_gmt":"2024-11-06T02:16:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=7271"},"modified":"2024-12-29T13:08:05","modified_gmt":"2024-12-29T13:08:05","slug":"bosanma-durumunda-cocugumuza-yaklasim-nasil-olmali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/7271\/bosanma-durumunda-cocugumuza-yaklasim-nasil-olmali\/","title":{"rendered":"Bo\u015fanma durumunda \u00e7ocu\u011fumuza yakla\u015f\u0131m nas\u0131l olmal\u0131?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Bo\u015fanma \u00f6ncesi d\u00f6nemde ebeveynler ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar nedeniyle s\u0131kl\u0131kla \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 ilgide azalma ya\u015farlar.&nbsp;Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te \u00e7ocuk \u00e7evresinde olup biten \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131 ve geli\u015fim seviyesine g\u00f6re alg\u0131layabilir. Bo\u015fanma hi\u00e7bir zaman bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun istedi\u011fi bir durum de\u011fildir. Aile birli\u011finin par\u00e7alanmas\u0131 istenmeyen bir durumdur. Ancak mutsuz ve \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmal\u0131 bir evde b\u00fcy\u00fcmektense tek ebeveynin oldu\u011fu daha sakin ve huzurlu bir ev \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in daha uygundur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bo\u015fanma durumunda ve sonras\u0131nda anne baban\u0131n ebeveynlik i\u015flevlerini ihmal etmemeleri \u00e7ocukla tutarl\u0131 ve sevgi dolu etkile\u015fimi s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmeleri \u00e7ocu\u011fun ve gencin bo\u015fanmadan en az etkilenmelerini sa\u011flar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anne babalar\u0131n bo\u015fanma konusunda \u00e7ocu\u011fa ve gence en do\u011fru yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki gibi s\u0131ralanabilir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Ayr\u0131 ya\u015faman\u0131n ne anlama geldi\u011fini, (\u00f6zellikle k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklarda) anne ve baba birlikte, su\u00e7lay\u0131c\u0131 olmadan konu\u015farak \u00e7ocu\u011fun anlamas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak.<\/li><li>\u00c7ocu\u011fun ya\u015f\u0131na uygun bir bi\u00e7imde bo\u015fanman\u0131n onlar\u0131n su\u00e7u olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ama onlar\u0131 nas\u0131l etkileyece\u011fini a\u00e7\u0131k ve sade bir dille anlatmak.<\/li><li>\u00c7ocu\u011fu her zaman sevilece\u011fine, en iyi \u015fekilde bak\u0131laca\u011f\u0131na inand\u0131rmak ve bu do\u011frultuda davranmak.<\/li><li>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 di\u011fer ebeveynle mutlu ve s\u0131cak bir ili\u015fki i\u00e7in cesaretlendirmek.<\/li><li>Eski e\u015fle ili\u015fkiyi m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca sorunsuz s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmek, \u00c7ocuklarla ilgili konularda i\u015fbirli\u011fi yapmak, bu m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011filse de en az\u0131ndan aradaki sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7ocuklara yans\u0131tmamak.<\/li><li>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n hayatlar\u0131ndaki ba\u015fka insanlardan ve uzmanlardan yard\u0131m ve rehberlik istemeleri i\u00e7in onlar\u0131 cesaretlendirmek.<\/li><\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bo\u015fanma \u00f6ncesi d\u00f6nemde ebeveynler ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar nedeniyle s\u0131kl\u0131kla \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 ilgide azalma ya\u015farlar.&nbsp;Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te \u00e7ocuk \u00e7evresinde olup biten \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7272,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,10,145],"tags":[1179,582,1124,1180],"class_list":["post-7271","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","category-pedagog","category-psikoloji","tag-ayrilmis-anne-baba","tag-bosanma","tag-bosanmis-anne-baba","tag-ebeveynlik"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7271","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7271"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7271\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8323,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7271\/revisions\/8323"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7271"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7271"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7271"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}