{"id":7556,"date":"2024-12-09T14:30:15","date_gmt":"2024-12-09T14:30:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=7556"},"modified":"2024-12-29T12:34:57","modified_gmt":"2024-12-29T12:34:57","slug":"bosanmada-anne-baba-rolu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/7556\/bosanmada-anne-baba-rolu\/","title":{"rendered":"Bo\u015fanmada \u201cKar\u0131-Koca\u201d Rol\u00fc Bitse de \u201cAnne Baba\u201d Rol\u00fc Devam Eder"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"bosanma\">Bo\u015fanma<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Evlilik gibi bo\u015fanma da bir s\u00fcre\u00e7tir. Hi\u00e7bir \u00e7ift evlenirken bo\u015fanmay\u0131 akl\u0131n\u0131n ucundan bile ge\u00e7irmez. Evlilikte kar\u0131 koca rolleri, sorumluluklar, g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayattaki ko\u015fu\u015fturmalar, stresli ya\u015famlar ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 beklentilerin kar\u015f\u0131lanmamas\u0131 vb neticesinde bo\u015fanma gibi istenmeyen bir durumla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor. Her evlilik \u00f6zeldir ve bo\u015fanma gerek\u00e7eleri de kendine \u00f6zg\u00fc sebepleri i\u00e7erir. \u00d6zellikle ebeveynli ailelerde bo\u015fanma karar\u0131nda \u00e7ocuklarda olu\u015fan korku, kayg\u0131 ve \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fun bu duruma kar\u015f\u0131n farkl\u0131 tepkiler g\u00f6stermesine neden olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7iftlerin unutmamas\u0131 gereken en \u00f6nemli durumun bo\u015fanman\u0131n kar\u0131-koca aras\u0131nda oldu\u011fudur. Anne ve babal\u0131\u011f\u0131n bo\u015fanma sonras\u0131 da devam edece\u011fi hep ak\u0131lda tutulmas\u0131 gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unutmay\u0131n sizin e\u015finizle \u00e7ok ciddi sorunlar\u0131n\u0131z olabilir ama \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ne annesi ile ne de babas\u0131yla sorunlar\u0131 vard\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk i\u00e7in d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en g\u00fczeli kendi annesi, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcs\u00fc kendi babas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu nedenle anne baban\u0131n birbiriyle anne baba rol\u00fcnde iyi ileti\u015fim i\u00e7inde olmalar\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 sevgi ve s\u0131cakl\u0131k g\u00f6stermeleri, onlar\u0131n bo\u015fanma sonras\u0131 duruma uyum g\u00f6stermelerini kolayla\u015ft\u0131racakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"bosanan-ebeveynlere-tavsiyeler\"><strong>Bo\u015fanan Ebeveynlere Tavsiyeler<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Art\u0131k Kar\u0131 \u2013 koca olmasan\u0131z bile \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zdan dolay\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek zorunda olan iki yeti\u015fkin oldu\u011funuzun bilincinde olarak hareket etmelisiniz.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bo\u015fanma sonras\u0131 s\u00fcre\u00e7te daha bilin\u00e7li davran\u0131\u015f sergilemek i\u00e7in uzman deste\u011fi ile ebeveynlik dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 alabilirsiniz.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bu zorlu s\u00fcre\u00e7 her ne kadar sizin y\u0131prat\u0131c\u0131 olsa da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6z ard\u0131 etmemelisiniz.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuz i\u00e7in e\u015finizle uzla\u015fmaya a\u00e7\u0131k ve baz\u0131 isteklerinizden feragat etmeye haz\u0131r olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Di\u011fer ebeveynle y\u00fcz y\u00fcze konu\u015fmakta zorlan\u0131yorsan\u0131z, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde tart\u0131\u015fmak yerine mesaj, bir arac\u0131 ya da e-posta yoluyla ileti\u015fim kurabilirsiniz.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun yeti\u015fmesinde sizin kadar di\u011fer ebeveynin de sorumlulu\u011fu oldu\u011funu unutmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Velayeti sizde olsa bile di\u011fer ebeveynin \u00e7ocuk \u00fczerindeki haklar\u0131na sayg\u0131l\u0131 olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011fun di\u011fer ebeveynle ili\u015fkisinden dolay\u0131 kendini su\u00e7lu hissetmesine sebep olacak s\u00f6z ve davran\u0131\u015flardan uzak durmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ebeveynlerden birini kaybeden \u00e7ocuk, di\u011ferini de kaybetme kayg\u0131s\u0131 ya\u015fayacakt\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011funuza ayr\u0131 ya\u015faman\u0131n onu terk etmek anlam\u0131na gelmedi\u011fini anlatmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ailedanismanligi.com.tr\/54\/son-degil-en-son-caredir-bosanmak.html\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"54\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Bo\u015fanma<\/a> sonras\u0131nda ebeveynler ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 su\u00e7luluk psikolojisiyle \u00e7ocu\u011fa a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ilgi g\u00f6sterme \u00e7ocu\u011fa hay\u0131r dememe gibi yanl\u0131\u015f tutum ve davran\u0131\u015flara y\u00f6nelebiliyorlar; burada evlilik s\u00fcrecindeki rutinin bozulmamas\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fimi ve psikolojisi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00f6nemli bir yer etmektedir. Bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f olsan\u0131z bile anne baba \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 tutarl\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f sergilemeye devam etmelidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\">Aile Dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131 Okan BAL<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ailedanismanligi.com.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/aile-evlilik-terapisti-okan-bal.png\" alt=\"Bo\u015fanma\" class=\"wp-image-8003\" style=\"width:840px;height:auto\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rank-math-toc-block\" id=\"rank-math-toc\"><h2>\u0130\u00e7erik<\/h2><nav><ul><li><a href=\"#bosanma\">Bo\u015fanma<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#bosanan-ebeveynlere-tavsiyeler\">Bo\u015fanan Ebeveynlere Tavsiyeler<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Evlilik gibi bo\u015fanma da bir s\u00fcre\u00e7tir. Hi\u00e7bir \u00e7ift evlenirken bo\u015fanmay\u0131 akl\u0131n\u0131n ucundan bile ge\u00e7irmez. Evlilikte kar\u0131 koca rolleri, sorumluluklar, g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayattaki ko\u015fu\u015fturmalar, stresli ya\u015famlar ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 beklentiler<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2949,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,145],"tags":[582,1307,211,1308,423],"class_list":["post-7556","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","category-psikoloji","tag-bosanma","tag-bosanma-destek","tag-bosanma-psikolojisi","tag-pedagog-yardimi","tag-psikolojik-destek"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7556","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7556"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7556\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8256,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7556\/revisions\/8256"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2949"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7556"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7556"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7556"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}