{"id":7623,"date":"2024-11-16T03:53:12","date_gmt":"2024-11-16T03:53:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=7623"},"modified":"2024-12-29T13:07:50","modified_gmt":"2024-12-29T13:07:50","slug":"bosanma-surecinde-cocuklarda-ve-ergenlerde-gozlenen-belirtiler-nelerdir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/7623\/bosanma-surecinde-cocuklarda-ve-ergenlerde-gozlenen-belirtiler-nelerdir\/","title":{"rendered":"Bo\u015fanma s\u00fcrecinde \u00e7ocuklarda ve ergenlerde g\u00f6zlenen belirtiler nelerdir?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

0-1 ya\u015f:<\/em><\/strong> Sinirlilik , uyku ve yeme d\u00fczeninin bozulmas\u0131, D\u0131\u015fa at\u0131m sorunlar\u0131 ve huzursuzluk geli\u015febilir. A\u011flama, parmak emme, anneye yap\u0131\u015fma g\u00f6zlenebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1-3 ya\u015f:<\/em><\/strong> \u00c7ocuk, anne yada baban\u0131n evde olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlar. Birlikte ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ebeveyne adeta yap\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Daha \u00e7ok a\u011flayan ve korkan bir \u00e7ocuk olmu\u015ftur. K\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131k, \u00f6fke, masturbasyon g\u00f6zlenebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Okul \u00f6ncesi d\u00f6nem (3-6 ya\u015f):<\/em><\/strong> Neden bo\u015fan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 tam anlayamazlar. Ancak anne baban\u0131n \u00fczg\u00fcn oldu\u011funu ve ayr\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlayabilirler. Korkular, kabuslar ve bo\u015fanmadan kendini sorumlu hissetme duygular\u0131 ya\u015fayabilirler. Sinirlilik, kar\u015f\u0131 gelme, uyku ve yeme d\u00fczeninde bozulma olabilir. Anne baban\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fa zaman ay\u0131rmas\u0131 ve sevgisini hissettirmesi \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130lkokul \u00c7a\u011f\u0131 (7-12 ya\u015f):<\/em><\/strong> Bu d\u00f6nemde ki\u015fisel ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131k ve arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkilerinin geli\u015fmesi beklenir.  Anne babadan birine ya da her ikisine de \u00f6fke duyabilirler. Kendilerini reddedilmi\u015f ve kand\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f hissedebilirler. Anne babadan birini iyi di\u011ferini k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00f6rme e\u011filiminde olurlar. Genellikle daha zay\u0131f ve g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fcz olan\u0131n taraf\u0131n\u0131 tutarlar. Olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flar, ders ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131, depresif yak\u0131nmalar\u0131 olabilir. Ge\u00e7ici bir s\u00fcre i\u00e7in okul ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 normal kabul edilmektedir. \u0130lgili ve de\u011fer veren bir ebeveynin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcreci olumlu etkiler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ergenlik \u00c7a\u011f\u0131:<\/em><\/strong> Ergenlik bedensel, bili\u015fsel ve toplumsal olarak olgunla\u015fman\u0131n oldu\u011fu d\u00f6nemdir. Daha \u00e7ok kendi ya\u015famlar\u0131na odaklanm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. \u00c7o\u011funlukla bo\u015fanmay\u0131 kabul etmezler. K\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131k \u00e7ok yo\u011fundur (fiziksel \u015fiddet dahi g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir) \u0130hanete u\u011fram\u0131\u015f, reddedilmi\u015flik duygusu ya\u015farlar. Gelecekteki evlilikleri dahil ili\u015fkilere g\u00fcvenlerini kaybederler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bo\u015fanma sonras\u0131 ebeveynlerle g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme nas\u0131l olmal\u0131d\u0131r?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmede \u00e7ocukla yeterince zaman ge\u00e7irilmelidir. G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelerin zaman ve s\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 net olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Di\u011fer ebeveynin evinde de bir odas\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131 yararl\u0131 olabilir. \u00c7ocu\u011fa eski e\u015fe y\u00f6nelik olumsuz duygu ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler aktar\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Eski e\u015fle ya\u015fanan sorunlar nedeniyle g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeler aksat\u0131lmamal\u0131, E\u015fler aras\u0131ndaki sorunlar \u00e7ocu\u011fa yans\u0131t\u0131lmamal\u0131, \u00c7ocu\u011fun di\u011fer ebeveynle g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesi ger\u00e7ek tehdit kayna\u011f\u0131 olmad\u0131k\u00e7a engellenmemelidir. G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelerde \u00e7ocuk \u015f\u0131mart\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

0-1 ya\u015f: Sinirlilik , uyku ve yeme d\u00fczeninin bozulmas\u0131, D\u0131\u015fa at\u0131m sorunlar\u0131 ve huzursuzluk geli\u015febilir. A\u011flama, parmak emme, anneye yap\u0131\u015fma g\u00f6zlenebilir....<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7624,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,10],"tags":[2,211,1024,1124,220,421],"class_list":["post-7623","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-danismanligi","category-pedagog","tag-aile-danismani","tag-bosanma-psikolojisi","tag-bosanma-sureci","tag-bosanmis-anne-baba","tag-cocuk-ve-bosanma","tag-pedagog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7623","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7623"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7623\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8321,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7623\/revisions\/8321"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7623"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7623"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ailedanismaniokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7623"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}